七年痒不痒？ by angelina6688

blog · @angelina6688 · Nov 30 '18 (edited)

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七年痒不痒？

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每次（只要不加班）快到周末我就会心情慢慢变好，今天是周五，那么离周末放假的日子也不远了（我们周六还要上半天班）。

然后每次周日晚上心情就会变得低落，因为第二天又要上班了。

又到周五，其实开心的原因还有一个，一周终于有一天可以过过二人世界了。

也许有人会说，有孩子的家庭和孩子在一起才会是最快乐的时光。但是我认为，在婚姻里来说，夫妻两在一起，亲子关系最好不要大于亲夫（亲妻）关系。甚至说亲夫关系甚至高于亲子会更好。

很多两口子有了孩子之后，爸爸或者妈妈（特别是妈妈）所有的注意力都会放在孩子身上而忽略了配偶。时间一长就会产生这样或者那样的小矛盾。

将关爱过多甚至全部的爱都给孩子之后，不仅孩子可能会产生一种我在家里地位是老大的感觉，还可能弱化夫妻间的感情，不管哪一种都不太好。

**我觉得最好的方式是爸爸爱妈妈，妈妈爱爸爸，然后再是爸妈爱孩子。让孩子在家庭的氛围中能够强烈的感受到父母之间的感情，而不是一味的父母双方把所有感情都倾注于孩子身上，没留下一丝半点给自己或者配偶。**

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和老公在一起差不多7年了，以前没孩子的时候只觉得二人世界无忧无虑真好，但是并没觉得有多宝贵。

现在天天回家差不多大部分时间都是和孩子一起玩儿一起互动一起学习什么的，很少有二人世界了。于是每周我们都会抽出一天把孩子给老人带下，我俩自己跑出来过过二人世界。

其实也没做什么特别的，家附近就是一所大学，我们只不过也像很多校园情侣那样压压马路下下馆子，遇到好看的电影一起看看电影，交流下感想等等。

有时候工作繁忙压力大，难得有那么一天就会觉得甚是珍贵，这天里不想去想孩子如何如何了，家里如何如何了，就只想挽着他一起重温下热恋时候的感觉。执子之手与子偕老也许就是这样的感觉？

日子过得平淡波澜不惊... ... 

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@techlee · Nov 30 '18

爱情需要保险

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@angelina6688 · Nov 30 '18

保险还是保鲜？

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@cnbuddy · Nov 30 '18

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@changxiu · Nov 30 '18

$0.04

很好的调剂方式
左手牵右手，平淡也温情
一直有人陪伴的不孤单、不惶恐，就是爱最好的证明吧

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@angelina6688 · Nov 30 '18

$0.04

说的真好(✪▽✪)

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@changxiu · Nov 30 '18

还改了题目，看来心里是踏实的👏

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二人世界甜蜜蜜。

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@angelina6688 · Nov 30 '18

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嘻嘻，见笑啦

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@kadishakho · Nov 30 '18

💕彼此相愛，彼此珍惜，彼此信任👍

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@angelina6688 · Nov 30 '18

$0.04

真理

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@yellowbird · Nov 30 '18

哈哈，原来电话里说不回去是要二人世界啊

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@angelina6688 · Nov 30 '18

嘘。。。。。。

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