假作真时真亦假！ by bowen11

wherein · @bowen11 · Oct 10 '19

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假作真时真亦假！

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今天有个同事，被其他人说很努力？她竟然不高兴了！我说，人家说你努力了，是夸你呀，你干嘛不高兴？

      她说，真的很努力这句话呀，不是一句好话！为啥呢？他就是一句普通的话，真的很努力，真的很用心，真的很上进，没啥特别的，就是人家跟你客气客气，人家客气客气都不夸长相，只能说明长得太不客气！拼不了颜值，那咱拼才华嘛，对吧！她继续说，来七八周之前，她觉得她自己才华还可以，刚来舞蹈队的时候呢，她觉得自己是齐天大圣，飞扬跋扈，目中无人，后来差点被淘汰呢，成了至尊宝，唉，随心所欲顺其自然，结果后来她莫名其妙当了队长，就成了孙悟空，比赛是紧箍咒，对手是牛魔王，导师团是唐僧，而我活的好像一条狗啊。她每天拼死拼活上班，晚上熬夜准备舞蹈动作，结果最后她忙活了半天之后，打破自尊心，熬到极限升高，才会听别人提了一句小涵啊，嗯，你真的很努力！

      她说：这句话，让我感到局促和焦虑，他真的让我更加焦虑了，什么是好话，好话是当要离开这个舞台，我想听的是说其他人认可你，认为你可以，你也能得到观众的掌声啊。但是很多人都跟我一样，都在真诚的过程中，内心有一个让你夜深人静，失眠焦虑抓狂，可遇而不可求的那个梦想和目标，这个时候，你需要听的，不是否定你成绩，这是肯定你的微不足道的态度，我不希望别人说我真的很努力，我需要的是那句，我真的看好你！

      我说，你也太较真儿了！别人夸你努力你还不高兴！真是太较真儿了！

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