<html> <h1>Эмоциональная зависимость. Часть №1</h1> <p>Всем известно, что здоровые партнерские отношения являются одной из главных ценностей жизни. В отношениях мы получаем признание собственной уникальности и ценности для другого, в отношениях происходит рост и развитие нашей личности, постоянство наших привязанностей дарит ощущение порядка и гармонии в меняющемся мире.</p> <p>Но всегда ли отношения удовлетворяют обоих участников? Всегда ли отношения гарантируют партнерам чувство безопасности и комфорта? Часто бывает так, что человек остается в отношениях вынужденно или так, что несмотря на всю свою важность, они почему то заканчиваются, оставляя после себя разочарование и чувство бессилия.</p> <p><img src="http://life-up.pro/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/upl_1485932519_147758.jpg" width="700" height="525"/></p> <p>Похоже, что отношения не являются ценностью сами по себе, скорее ценными являются те переживания, ради которых люди вступают в отношения. Важной ценностью отношений является возможность быть свободным в присутствии кого-то рядом. Когда мы не жертвуем большей частью своей жизни, чтобы получить меньшее из того, что могут дать отношения.</p> <p>Мне хорошо одному, а с тобой еще лучше — так чувствуют себя люди в здоровых отношениях. В отношениях зависимости эмоциональный климат несколько иной, когда вдвоем плохо, а порознь — еще хуже. Когда вокруг много тревоги, а внутри недостаточно ресурсов, партнер может стать заложником этой ситуации, поскольку будет вынужден все время находиться рядом, спасая другого от страха разрыва, а себя — от вины за это.</p> <p>В зависимых отношениях искореняется возможность для развития, поскольку из основная задача — гарантировать стабильность и неизменяемость.</p> <p>В зависимых отношениях невозможно быть собой, поскольку приходится подстраиваться под партнера, загоняя неприятные переживания под кожу.</p> <p>В зависимых отношениях невозможно увидеть своего партнера целиком, он или только “хороший” или только “плохой”, разделенный на части, которые трудно совместить.</p> <p>Автор - <strong>Макс Пестов</strong></p> <p><em>Врач-психотерапевт, психиатр-нарколог, системный семейный терапевт, гештальт-терапевт, супервизор, тренер</em></p> <p><a href="http://xn----otbnhbbcn2f4a.xn--p1ai/">Личный сайт</a></p> <p>Телефон: (4212) 25-40-77 (Хабаровск) </p> </html>
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