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### <center>**A word as deep as a feeling**</center>
**Love your enemies.** One truth, that must become reality, my thought is that I have no enemies, and why? I have not looked for them, I am at peace with myself, I do not have to have enemies, and anyone who believes for some reason that he is my enemy or that I think he is, is wrong. Why complicate life? If at the end of the day, that does not take anything. Show the world that loving everyone and not filling the heart with bad things is the best thing we do for ourselves.
**Bless them that curse you.** The word has power, we should be the example of those who still have a dark heart, we must change those hearts, for love, for words that come out with sweetness, with an always **I bless you**.
We can not be equal to all, we must change the world with our acts, and so you will realize that that person who some day thought that he should curse you, will change to give you blessings.
**Do good to them that hate you**. Hate is a feeling that is born of something badly lived, but it is in us to have to change it, we must reach out in a good way, so that it understands that there is no reason to have that feeling of hatred in us.
Doing good is honoring our almighty father Jesus.
**And pray for them which despitefully use you**. It is something I do every day, thanks to the fact that my God is real, that he exists and that he is by my side all the time, I must be fair and pray for those who mistreat me.
Maybe, I get angry, because it gives me the feeling to see that they are unjust, but I know that the one who mistreats me does not know God and needs help.
I live every day in my work, abuse, most of the time, they have bad temper, they want to humiliate and mistreat, but I do not lose my temper, I pray for me, for them, because God, touch their rebellious hearts, and can change them.
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## <center>I can decide, by means of the word what I want</center>
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Many times we ask ourselves questions, we do not answer, you feel ashamed or you feel that the wrong thing fills you with impotence, but we must be aware and reconsider, do the right thing.
> Have you taken any action regarding whether someone is being bullied at work? Let's act, but always in a good way.
I am the one I want to talk about, myself whom I have to defend, I am a victim of abuse at work, but through the word I defended myself.
Allowing abuse for so long may weaken, but for many it makes us very strong.
Recently, I did not want to do an activity at work, so my boss called my attention, but in what way? insulting me and sending me home, in the form of dismissal, I was really annoyed, but my reaction was that it's okay if he wants me to leave, but before that, I could not keep quiet, and I asked him to stop and listen. I said: I can not risk my life climbing a scaffolding without the right protective equipment, because if something happens, I slip and fall, you will not help me, and if you want I'll go home, but not because I do not want a job, it's because You are sending me directly to the grave, asking me for an activity at risk.
I had the courage to defend myself, in the most civilized way possible and I am still working.
**Then, without offending, you can defend yourself and make yourself felt.**