yes, i was just thinking that one problem is people are always trying to find others that are like them, for a variety of reasons; reassurance, comfort, countering isolation, confidence, etc.  it's like we're searching the world for a mirror.  then one learns that on the dozens of character traits, you're lucky to find someone with even a handful that are similar, so embrace that and accept the other stuff, and no harm done. i respect your quest for authenticity.  life can be frightening, social groups protect but also deform, it's a negotiation and a price one pays.  duality and all the gray between.  in all our preaching to the choir media saturation everyone is on their own channel, don't want to walk 5 feet let alone a mile in someone else's shoes.  we corrupt others, in their individuality and their cultures, that's where divisiveness is sown. 

peace

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