Some people believe they are an open book, but it can be dangerous not to maintain a certain level of privacy. Some things are best kept away from the public eye. 

<h1>The Older We Become, The More We Learn</h1> As we go through life, we realize through mistakes why privacy can sometimes be a good thing. Sometimes we learn after revealing an unpopular opinion to a group of coworkers. Or perhaps it's after writing a post on social media that comes back to haunt us. The wise learn from these mistakes and keep some things hidden. 

There is a big difference between being friendly and social and recklessly revealing sensitive details. Some things are truly meant to be private, like unkind comments about appearance or unnecessary complaints. Those who believe that they must share every thought that crosses their mind end up destroying friendships and burning bridges.

At this point, you're probably wondering what else should be kept private, right? Well, let's discuss some of those together.

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<h1>1. Your Income</h1> This topic is one that people are often curious about, especially among friends. People are compelled to ask each other, "How much do you make?" When salaries are similar among a group, it may not cause problems; however, the larger the difference, the more resentment and hard feelings there will probably be. 

It is better to keep the details of your salary, benefits, and bonuses a secret. My friends often ask how much I earn, but I've learned never to reveal these details. The best reply in such times is, "Enough to keep my tummy full." Sure, they may still insist on the exact amount, just like my friends do, but you can always insist that it's best you don't say. Try to change the subject.

<h1>2. Your Sexual Life</h1> This topic is often discussed among friends. Whether you are in a marriage or have a girlfriend or boyfriend, you should keep your sex life secret. It's your own business how often you have sex with your partner or what you do together. It is best to refrain from asking others about their sex life as well, or you'll be forced to reveal details yourself.

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If someone inquires about your sexual life, try and shift the conversation to details about other things you and your partner enjoy doing together. For instance, you might like going hiking. Do your best to turn the conversation to everyday hobbies, sports, and other activities.

<h1>3. Someone Else's Secrets</h1> Sometimes you are asked to keep things confidential. When someone shares their private details with you, you must keep that information to yourself. This is a quality of a successful businessman, a good friend, and a desirable partner. Never reveal the secrets of another whether it relates to business or personal life.

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Credibility and trustworthiness are precious. When someone trusts you, especially with sensitive information, you must never disappoint him and make him regret it. Guard that trust like a pot of gold. Remember that once the trust is broken, it can never be regained because the crack in the heart remains there.

As you go through life, you may find other things that you should keep private. You'll learn these things as you experience new things and make mistakes. Do your best to learn from each experience.

<h3>I'd love to hear your feedback.</h3> What are some things that you know to keep private now?