**…continued…** from [part 1](https://steemit.com/nature/@communitycoin/human-nature-contributed-by-olawalium) and [part 2](https://steemit.com/life/@communitycoin/human-nature-ii-contributed-by-olawalium) ![pexels-photo-1206059.jpeg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmbuvQw4VZXFCZkdHAbfSBAtWxFMZ5u1bs7764aeja8EeZ/pexels-photo-1206059.jpeg) [[Source]](https://www.pexels.com/photo/woman-falling-in-line-holding-each-other-1206059/) We can’t change anyone and that is the truth, we can only suggest and advice, but the decision is entirely left to them to change based on the information they have been left with. When you can’t change someone, you will choose to change your view about what they are doing that you don’t like. I might not be able to make you act in a particular way, but I can choose to see what you are doing differently and if I can’t, I will let you be until you realize the effect of your action. >You cannot hold anyone by the hand in other to be heard. You should rather hold your tongue than them. Human nature will always kick in and humans are one of the unpredictable lots you can find around. Our human and natural instinct will always spring up. --- ![pexels-photo-904276.jpeg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmetGEzqGha3zYZuqY7LeLU1i5nVUPhz1xLh36HKKjH4Xn/pexels-photo-904276.jpeg) [[Source]](https://www.pexels.com/photo/closeup-photo-of-man-close-eyes-and-mouth-904276/) A man was trying to save a snake in the fire and as he attempted to save the snake, the snake bites him, causing him excruciating pain. The man dropped the snake and the snake fell right back into the fire. The man thought of what next to do and he looked for a metal pole so as to take the snake out of the fire. He did and took the snake out of the fire, then later released the snake. Someone who was watching approached him and said, **”That snake bit you. Why were you still trying to save it again?”** The man said It is in the nature of a snake to bite and that can never change but his own nature is to help. Often times we react badly when we are trying to save someone and they still either don’t appreciate it or they hurt us. We feel that is the end of trying to do good or help anyone. Once we have been hurt by one person, we generalize and try to change our own good nature, but that is wrong. Never change your attitude or nature due to someone’s inability to appreciate it. It is human’s nature to hurt and disappoint. **…to be continued…** --- Thank you for your time. --- **My pen doesn’t bleed, it speaks, with speed and ease.** *Still me*, >My tongue is like the pen of a ready writer. **Olawalium**; (**Love’s chemical content, in human form**). *Take a dose today: doctor’s order.* --- <center><h2>If you enjoyed this post, follow @Olawalium</h2></center>
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The truth is, just like you have said, you can't change someone else, you may be an agent or make that person see reason why he needs to change, it is not left for him to decide whether he is going to change or not. If you want to change someone then you must be ready to act like one. You should be ready to receive insult, hurt above all.
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Yes, growth is painful and for us to grow, it must be painful sometimes. We can't change anyone but we can only suggest while we leave the decision entirely to them.
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