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**Be conscious of what you do in then presence of children**

Children catch things and words so easily. They have sharp brain and can be able to grab what anybody says in their presence. The major reason they are children is because they understand the surrounding much better than the adults. They have a very sharp sense and can do what is beyond them if proper care is not taken.

Anytime we as parents are doing something in the presence of our children, we should mind whom they are and always send them out before doing anything at all. They see everything and understand everything so easily.

One thing we need to be mindful of as parents, is that we should not fight in the presence of our children because when we do, they will take it and sink it in their sense of living that, it is right for husband and wife to fight, which suppose not to be. When they later grow up as adult, they will become thugs and start beating their wives because they have leanrt it from their parents.

Whatever you show to your children today, will they carry out in future to come. Our children's future is very vital and very bright and also fragile. So, we must be mindful of what we say, the kind of words that come out of our mouth and the kind of things we do in the presence of our children.

Some words are better swallowed than saying them in the presence of our children. Abusive words and curse are words we must be cautioned of. Since our children grab words so easily, it is better for us to keep mute and say words of praises. Once they discover that one is always saying abusive words, they will tend to grab those words and assume that abusive words are nice to be spoken. 

Manny today have the habit of abusing their parents and elder which suppose not to be. If your child abuse you today, what will you do to such child? While then must you abuse your elders when no one can try it for you. Teach your child the way you want him/her to be. Teach your child to follow the right path and do not abuse your elders in other for your child not to abuse you.

Taking back to the aspect of teachers, teachers must not even make attempt of fighting in the presence of students you are teaching. They can imitate you as a teacher. Who then is teaching who if you adopt the habit of fighting. 

As a teacher, don't remember to say words that is uncalled for to the students you are teaching. Students are fast learners, they learn faster than adults.

Always do what is right in the presence of children or students. Tell them fighting is not good and can put one in prison or can lead to killing of one another. Tell them to always obey their elders because they are old ones and will not be well with those that insult the elders.