做真实的自己 by cxyuehua

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做真实的自己
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做真实的自己

当人们为了掩饰自己真实的需要,而刻意表现得大度、宽容、豁达、坚强等时,无论对方有没有满足你的需要,你都获得了某种道德优势。你是一个如此好的人,对方却如此自私、糟糕。这种关系的格局一旦建立,你就获得了可以审判对方的筹码。

从本质上来说,这其实是对关系的一种榨取。所有的伪装都会带来对自我和关系的消耗。

所以,做真实的自己,让彼此都处在一个非常舒服的状态里,才能慢慢地互相走近。

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