SCHOOL FOR PARENTS: My son is aggressive! What should I do? by deisip67

edu-venezuela · @deisip67 · Jul 9 '19

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SCHOOL FOR PARENTS: My son is aggressive! What should I do?

#### What is important to know about children who sometimes struggle with their peers or show aggression?
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Generally, aggression occurs when the child can not control their feelings. A child who feels helpless is very subject to emotion. An aggressive child is an unhappy child.

If the child feels lonely and helpless, seeks help from the parents and if they help and support him, then the aggression will not manifest, but if he does not receive help, then the aggression may arise as an answer. Therefore, before an outbreak of aggression, the child's face usually becomes empty and indifferent, feels unnecessary. Adults should strive to keep their baby from feeling abandoned and useless.

Anger can occur as a natural reaction to an obstacle that prevents the satisfaction of needs. The child was not allowed to see the caricature, the toy was removed and, now, he becomes flushed with anger and throws his fists at the aggressor.

In order for parents to help children get rid of aggression, they must first learn the reasons why a child can lose control of himself. You can also contact a psychologist who will listen carefully to you and your child.

### What parents should do if they observe aggressive behavior in the child.
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A child who is ready to show aggressiveness, parents should, first of all, make it clear that they can trust them in everything. The simplest thing is to hug a child, give him a pat on the head, say sweet words.

If these actions do not help, then it is better to leave the child alone. You may show dissatisfaction with your behavior, but in moderation. Physical punishment will only aggravate the situation. His behavior: calm and sober, must set an example.

To get rid of the undesirable behavior of their children, adults are obliged to spend as much time as possible with the child, playing with them, because during the joint games the contact between the parents and their children is established.
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Puzzles help to change a child's attention from insults to creation. As a result, aggressive behavior will manifest itself less and less and strong contact will be established between children and their parents.

Parents must also patiently explain to their children how to behave.

***In the event that your child's aggressive behavior is not associated with any type of stress and manifests itself every day, the child becomes angry for the most insignificant reason and if he constantly shows the need to hurt another, he should consult with a specialist. Sometimes aggressive behavior can cause diseases of the nervous system. In this case, the child needs immediate treatment.***

## Source:
[1](https://elpais.com/elpais/2018/12/17/mamas_papas/1545034268_335800.html) [2](http://zolani.es/comportamientos-agresivos-ninos/)

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