Thankyou for sharing @doitvoluntarily.

Awesome post.. Is high time we take responsibility of our own mistakes.

∞§∞Responsibility is the key to freedom∞§∞

Very well written @doitvoluntarily. I think a lack of humility is often the cause of the blame game. We are often so quick to think 'l can do no wrong', but it is part of our human nature to make mistakes. Being humble and admitting to them should be as simple as admitting to being a human. And I just realized that the words human and humility share the same root. Too bad they don't always go hand in hand.

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Sometimes it's kinda hard to find the root...
Thanks for posting :)

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Well said.   Others may have planted the seeds to one's problems but at some point you realize that you can change.   You may do some self-analysis or counseling but realizing the origin is an intellectual exercise.   If it helps you own the problem that is good.   But do not dwell on it.   Move forward and take ownership of the problem so it does not remain a roadblock in your life.   Only you can change you.

A great article to reflect.
Who blames the other has limited vision and creates a limited life.

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I very much agree with you say Sir @doitvoluntarily, sometimes we focus to other people's problems instead of just to cover the mistake yourself. and we should also be aware that life is not to maintain the lives of others, but we must learn from the mistakes that have been made by others. Thanks for sharing this post to all of us, Sir, very useful.

Great Post ! Of course I already follow you. When people point their finger, they REALLY need to practice in front of a mirror. 

Read More, Reason More   ...   JTS

We ourselves are responsible of our sorrows....why should others try to make us happy....its me who react in certain conditions.and reaction is in my hand..

Playing the victim is such an appealing role because it absolves us of responsibility.   For some it's easier to play the role of a victim because they've actually be en wronged in the past.  The problem is that from the perspective of a victim, there's very little they can do to actually fix their situation.  This is he definition of being disempowered, but empower,ent comes from seriously asking the question "What can I do about it?"   The situation only changes when taking responsibility even when what happened in the past is out of our hands and sometimes leaves us at a disadvantage.

@doitvoluntarily Wow, that is certainly so wonderful. I'm quite grateful for that! Find it irresistible. Resteemed.

Yes, the first step to solve any problem is to identify the root cause.

Yea, that is a human nature to point at something / someone with a finger first, in countries with predominant collectivism tradition it brings people and their development down because no one wants to take an responsibility for something and convince others

if sometimes when we have problems we blame the others, that good post.

I'd like to add though, when it comes to personal issues and mental illness, finding the root cause isn't the cure.

A lot of people think that it's like in books or movies, wherein the main character finds himself or herself through finding the root cause and boom, they experience some cathartic moment and instantly become better.

Nah. It doesn't work like that.

The root cause is just an insight to help you heal better.

You've still got to put in the work to heal yourself and it will take a commitment over the long term.

Good one @doitvoluntarily

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No one wants to accept their mistakes. It is a big problem of us.

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Thanks for this. Very inspiring. I hope you have a WONDERFUL, WONDERFUL day!!!!! 😃

Admitting your own responsibility and possible wrongdoing is rarely easy, but as you have pointed out, blaming others is often keeping is from finding the real cause of the problem that often stems from ourselves, at least to an extent.

Great post as it is an important reminder to keep looking into that mirror with honesty ;)

So very true we are all guilty of this  (well most of us). I am going through a tough time with the local authorities extorting me out of money, but I am getting angry with it. I have to pay it now, I need to get on with that. And learn for next time how to approach it so I can not or better still get my plan rolling so I can live free on my own land :)

Usually learn more from my mistakes.  Not easy to admit defeat! Good post. Thank you. 🐓🐓

The root of things is what we have to solve first so that we can solve the branches of its results on us.