Life is a series of experiences that should be as diverse as possible.
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Let's say - when a woman is disappointed in love, she doesn't learn anything from experience. Based on her experience, she creates an opinion that all men are selfish, narcissistic, and therefore decide to stay alone. Time passes, she is no longer younger, and the call of nature forces her into a love relationship, but love disappointments rush mercilessly.
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But more and more I see the same stories is with men. Stories, when men get are disappointed by a loved one, and therefore lost faith in themselves. Instead of thinking good about themselves, they turn inside and think that they are the reason for break up. Ok, there are situations, when only one is guilty, but mostly, both are. 
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Disappointment in love is just one of many of our many experiences. We make the biggest mistake when we experience this experience and we internalize it to the extent that we always create the same circumstances in the future that we can always experience disappointment again. What we think, we attract. The law of attraction is so consistent in negative vibrations to fulfill all our trauma and fears.
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In the unpleasant love experience, we can act in different ways: We seek the guilt in ourselves. Feeling that we aren't good enough because a loved one doesn't want us or he/she doesn't accept us, yet he exaggerates our self-esteem. Just a few people in painful moments thought that the person concerned might not be devoted to him ... With such thoughts, we circumvent negative vibrations and prevent them from becoming part of us.
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We live in different films. We shouldn't expect anyone to dance on our melody. If music doesn't suit him/her, there is nothing wrong with it. Life is so arranged that everyone meets their better half. Such a half, from which he will not die, but will grow.
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The idea of leaving the life of many people is squeezed into the stomach. Leaving the reins to the forces that are stronger than us is for many a science fiction. Life can run smoothly, but only when we pull the reins and let ourselves go. We should be grateful for the unpleasant experiences because they are for us to consolidate us - in order to keep them alive for years and years and slowly killing us. The attachment to pain brings even more pain into our lives! Leaving and trusting in our lives brings the right partner!
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If an unpleasant experience has occurred to you, accept it as part of your life and leave it exactly where it happened. Don't pull it with you and don't hold on to it! A small snowball can soon become a huge snowball if you don't stop it at the right time.
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Hope I didn't make you fall asleep with today's post. ;) Goodnight.
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*Photos made by me, and my Samsung A5.*