Where Mithila is standing right now, after looking back from there, his future seems very easy to him. He has completed his post-graduation work, education, family history, and he has got the gold medal for success. At that time, actress Rafiat Rashid Mithila was passing a tough time of life. In his language, during the crisis, he showed the path of light to study. He has given the speed of study to push forward all the hesitation. Today, Adar Rahman approves the progress of Mithila on Women's Day
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Life is not easy, says Mithila. Photo: Joy

At the time of the work at BRAC Center, Mithila got out of the job. He worked in the Early Childhood Development Department. There is no scope to go out of office for any workday. It is difficult to reach him. It was found in the country. Otherwise, he has never been to Tanzania, sometimes Sierra Leone, to run for work again in China. Whatever time the country gets, there is a time barrier for family, friends, and acting. And the holidays are just iraara. Mithila's daughter Ayra, her princess, Ayra.

I did not say anything wrong. Not the princess. Mithila does not want to make a daughter, she wants to make people. Who will keep his personality in all situations, in any case, speaking the rights will be upright and firm and will remain independent all the time. Mithila does not want to keep a girl dressed like a doll-groomed doll So, with my daughter Ayra, Mithila will travel around the country and abroad.
If you go to the country for work, take the girl with the opportunity. If they do not have the opportunity to take the book from the country for the girl. People from different parts of the world want to know Ayra.

But why now? Mithila said, "I got married while I was in honors the third year. I was still very delicate. I thought I would be a girl, dress him like a princess. Keep it on the head. Tell fairy tales But as time went on, looking at the reality of life, my thoughts began to change. I decided to take her the first lap, not the princess, I would make her big as a man. His personality will be strong, the voice will be strong. It is not easy to compromise, soft and delicate. 

Life is not easy-when did this reality begin to understand? This question comes naturally after Mithila's words come naturally. Reply Mithila He said, "My mother's marriage was 17 years old. After the marriage, he has passed HSC, Honors, Masters, BED, and M.D. I can say that after marriage, after learning to be more mother, my mother's struggle.
I understand why my mother used to tell me to stand on my own feet, to continue my studies. A woman needs to be self-reliant to survive herself. So I have studied full-time jobs, family, children, acting, as well as everything else. Never stopped One time I saw this study saved me from all the crisis. '

Mithila graduated and postgraduate in Political Science from Dhaka University. Then joined the private development firm Braya. In the year 2014, when the daughter Ayara was first, the second postgraduate started. It was the time of the most difficult struggle for education. Mithila said the routine of his time: The office from 9 am to 5 am Classes from 5:30 There for 4 hours Cook back home, give food to the table, feed Ayra, then sit down to read after 11.

Since 2015, the time became more unstable for Mithila. Since that year, informal separation (Separation) began with husband Tahsan. Mithila got some peace when she was under stress and after the rush of the day. Although often tired of the mother would say, 'I can not do it. Let's leave it. 'But the uncompromising efforts of the mind to read and did not stop him. Rather, all the struggles bring good results at the end of 2016. He won the best results from the BRAC University for post-graduate chancellor's gold medal.

Now look back at Mithila everything seems possible. He wants to spread the message to everyone now that he has been asked to quit after successfully reaching this difficult time.

At that time a young girl who came to Mithila at a ceremony said, "You have changed my life." After hearing the words, she said that since the marriage, the young woman was suffering from mental depression in many ways, but fear did not open her face in social consciousness.
Mithila gave an inspiring speech on his life struggle at a ceremony last year. On that day, the life of the young woman changed to that speech. She then pampered her life. Mithila said that this is her biggest achievement. At least one life changed his words, one life learned to survive at least all the fears. That makes Mithila more dynamic and encourages further on the way.


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