I Don't Get Them by ferrate

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· @ferrate ·
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I Don't Get Them
This life of ours, make each person think differently, and what seems to be good to you may be something that is really bad to another. I don’t really know if they don’t want to be appreciated or they see all forms of appreciation as meaning something bad.


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Whenever you do them the honour of being polite and manly they see it to mean something sexually. The environment we stay have a lot of influence on us in terms of the way we see things. I once went to this neighborhood and the way people around that location appreciated a car, one would think it was a woman they are talking about. 

Sometimes I ask myself, so what really make the very good things you say to others seems to be bad to them. But there is no perfect answer whenever I think about it.

One thing that always hit me during this time of such happenings is the location of the person or where the person grew up. To some people certain words are bad to them no matter how you say it. I once met this lady who after seeing how glamour and bright she was I said she looked hot.

And I really wished that day that I never said the hot word, she was like I should say she was hot or else our friendship may end. But on the real, she was really hot or I guess she wanted me to say she looks beautiful. 

To me she was way too above the beautiful word, and I really wished you reading this were there to witness if she was hot or not. So another time I went with the word blighting and it ended up as the same the first incident happened.

I guess I should just go with the simple word for her to understand. If you have also met this stuff don’t feel shy to share, so I can understand such people….Lol
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