<html> <p>https://steemitimages.com/0x0/https://i.imgsafe.org/e182536def.png</p> <p>I have never had many friends, simply because I don't easily trust people. I am very cautious about who I invite into my personal space, and you can call me somewhat of a loner. I don't mind being alone, and I am not angry at myself, so I actually enjoy spending time with myself. </p> <p>Perhaps I have been hurt so many times by people pretending to be my friends, that I have learned my lesson. I see myself as a trustworthy person and if I make friends with someone, then it means that I really trust you. I have made quite a few real friends here on Steemit and with all honesty, I can say that I appreciate these people more than they could ever imagine. </p> <h2>Has anyone ever lied to you in your face?</h2> <p><br></p> <p>Recently I have caught out one of my so-called real friends lying to me. It doesn't matter how small the lie is, but if you have the guts to lie to me in my face, then I have the guts to unfriend you. It is sad that things turned out this way, but I honestly do not have time to put up with someone that can't be honest. I would much rather be alone and happy than to be unhappy with a fake friend. </p> <p>I don't have the time and the energy to waste on people that actually don't want to give you the time of day. </p> <p><em>This made me wonder a little about why have people become so selfish?</em></p> <p><em>What happened to compassion towards others?</em> </p> <p>These days it is all about <em>me </em>and how <em>I</em> can benefit instead of trying to help others in every possible way. Some people just don't care about anyone or anything except themselves! </p> <p>Isn't it funny how some people just never contact you until they need something from you? </p> <p>Months go by without a single word, and then all of a sudden when they need you for something, THEN they suddenly contact you with long sorry excuses. It's all about me me me! </p> <p>https://steemitimages.com/0x0/https://i.imgsafe.org/e0ed58dd35.png</p> <p>This brings me back to trustworthy. Trust ...that's another issue....<em>what do you see as trustworthy</em>? </p> <blockquote><em>To be trustworthy is to be honest and truthful.</em> </blockquote> <p>I know quite a few people that are really trustworthy and honest, but for the same price, I have seen just as many people who are just downright dishonest. <em> </em></p> <h1>Trust takes years to build, seconds to break, and forever to repair.</h1> <p><br></p> <p><em>Success can only be built on trust. </em>Trust creates an environment where people feel free to be passionate and committed. Trust is the most effective communication in relationships, and without trust, relationships fail. If you want someone to trust you, YOU NEED TO BE TRUSTWORTHY! </p> <h2>So why are people dishonest?</h2> <p><br></p> <ul> <li>People are lazy! They completely lack the skills to do something on their own and then settle for the easy way out. </li> <li>Greediness. Some people will do anything to succeed. Even if it means hurting others in the process. </li> <li>Lack of moral values. Need I say more? Some people will cheat and steal to get to the top because that is the only thing that is important to them. </li> </ul> <h1>So how do we deal with dishonest people?</h1> <p><br></p> <p>We confront them. We name and shame them! <em>No need for embarrassment </em>....just make them aware that you know what they did, and perhaps guilt may bring them to their senses. </p> <p>Discuss the situation openly, because talking about the situation should at least make you feel better. Then move on. To keep a grudge is painful and stressful, and it is better to just let go. </p> <p>The most important of all is to forgive and forget. Often this is the most difficult thing to do in life, but forgiveness can heal wounds. You might not trust this person afterward, but you might feel much better. </p> <p> </p> <p>https://steemitimages.com/0x0/https://i.imgsafe.org/e281e9abab.png</p> <p> </p> <p><strong>https://media.discordapp.net/attachments/636539314402230272/636539524461101066/STEEMSA_logo.png?width=300&height=300</strong> </p> <p>https://steemitimages.com/DQmd73NC2v4u5AFvdqmUiSzSE9NF3JyDTaPN74W5czMZvSQ/giantbear.png</p> <p>https://imgp.whaleshares.io/0x0/https://steemitimages.com/0x0/https://cdn.steemitimages.com/0x0/https://imgoat.com/uploads/f93f983524/109474.gif </p> <p><br></p> <p><a href="https://steemitimages.com/0x0/https://i.imgsafe.org/e182536def.png">Image source 1</a></p> <p><a href=" https://steemitimages.com/0x0/https://i.imgsafe.org/e0ed58dd35.png">Image source 2</a></p> <p><a href=" https://steemitimages.com/0x0/https://i.imgsafe.org/e281e9abab.png">Image source 3</a></p> <p><br></p> </html>
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| himshweta | 0 | 2,698,491,525 | 100% | ||
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| spiritualmax | 0 | 2,371,058,222 | 2% | ||
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| ejlo3310 | 0 | 2,684,836,025 | 50% | ||
| ruth-elise | 0 | 575,189,348 | 30% | ||
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| miroslavrc | 0 | 4,468,821,253 | 5% | ||
| erikah | 0 | 70,233,017,273 | 40% | ||
| lordjames | 0 | 1,722,257,783 | 1% | ||
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| focusnow | 0 | 7,171,175,899 | 50% | ||
| tpvoter1 | 0 | 103,540,797 | 100% | ||
| apteacher | 0 | 12,393,428,570 | 100% | ||
| share4every1 | 0 | 177,653,540 | 100% | ||
| mynotsofitlife | 0 | 837,891,493 | 10% | ||
| aceaeterna | 0 | 2,358,545,355 | 50% | ||
| minerthreat | 0 | 6,001,006,198 | 2% | ||
| aro.steem | 0 | 279,466,146 | 0.4% | ||
| ojap02 | 0 | 1,041,977,391 | 100% | ||
| steemjet | 0 | 7,925,183,691 | 1% | ||
| mikemoi | 0 | 1,436,479,428 | 2% | ||
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| justinmullet | 0 | 498,166,783 | 2% | ||
| sgbonus | 0 | 23,029,002,386 | 100% | ||
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| suonghuynh | 0 | 401,718,283,946 | 2.7% | ||
| uglyogreh | 0 | 549,787,788 | 100% | ||
| mrnightmare89 | 0 | 1,869,712 | 0.2% | ||
| ocdb | 0 | 17,609,639,992,672 | 10% | ||
| xmrking | 0 | 634,592,316 | 2% | ||
| marygourmet | 0 | 580,394,182 | 100% | ||
| csy | 0 | 40,117,783,995 | 20% | ||
| smartvote | 0 | 96,906,671,677 | 2.7% | ||
| anttn | 0 | 84,588,259,340 | 25% | ||
| lupafilotaxia | 0 | 40,024,717,822 | 100% | ||
| tech4all | 0 | 272,608,427 | 2% | ||
| alexnes | 0 | 345,017,701 | 2% | ||
| steemit-united | 0 | 27,101,157,642 | 9.5% | ||
| a-bot | 0 | 46,935,523,767 | 20% | ||
| laissez-faire | 0 | 47,305,158 | 100% | ||
| cultus-forex | 0 | 1,399,358,781 | 1.2% | ||
| tuda | 0 | 37,319,918,073 | 100% | ||
| steemjetmedia | 0 | 6,726,038,131 | 2% | ||
| steem-ua | 0 | 293,041,418,001 | 6.62% | ||
| wiseman222 | 0 | 569,098,968 | 100% | ||
| new-steemit | 0 | 1,013,498,102 | 2% | ||
| ecodesigns | 0 | 4,181,280,997 | 50% | ||
| fredfred | 0 | 310,412,116 | 100% | ||
| swiftbot | 0 | 577,620,473 | 5% | ||
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| ascorphat | 0 | 0 | 2.5% | ||
| nedshare | 0 | 350,027,078 | 100% | ||
| wolfinator | 0 | 452,851,884 | 2% | ||
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