What would you say to a younger version of yourself from the past ? by happyolly

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· @happyolly ·
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What would you say to a younger version of yourself from the past ?
Hello,Steemians :)!

I want to share with you my todays ideas, thoughts and awareness

![3.jpg](https://steemitimages.com/DQmdQW1FFPwgu4Az18fhJRPof1ofMcx9QaSmsKZc1pmQn9P/3.jpg)

Today was the situation ...I was sitting in a cafe and drinking coffee with my ex-husband (yes,a strange situation 0.0 ...). The fact that we have a few common financial matters that need to be completed.

And here I sit ,drinking my coffee and understand...

![2.jpg](https://steemitimages.com/DQmTbcHx7ZFfKZF6XhLcmBu5PQihWUGN9QpB9vkkjF2dFJo/2.jpg)

I realized that my life has completely changed in the last 2 months! Changed quickly,easily,and completely!

Some situations that seemed horrible intractable problems ended now ! Many things from which I suffered over the years,simply ceased to exist in my life! I looked at myself from outside and realized that I now looks like differently,feel differently,speak differently ( and that's only after 2 months! what will happen next :)!! )

In my life, at all levels, there are incredible changes! Every day there are new discoveries,events,meetings,opportunities,gifts,...!

It happens that you live with problems,difficulties,fears,entanglements,something hurts you and you don't know how to fix the situation... But you think about the problems day after day, you are looking for new ways... And then you find yourself in a new day, perhaps many months later,many years later... And you realize that there is no problem that it was solved very simply!

And I thought today. How cool would it be if the day when we realized that our problems are very easily resolved, on that day we could go back in time! Just back for a couple of minutes! We could go back a few months or years ago!

We could go back in time and came to visit us in the most difficult and confusing time of our lives! We could embrace ourselves ( a younger and an early version of ourselves  ;) ). To hug and say, "Honey ,don't worry and don't be sad! It will be over soon! Just trust me! You will soon find a way out of this situation! Your life will change completely! Will change for the better! Just don't stop,live your life,seek new ways and just be yourself! You'll be happy! I promise you, I checked ;) I know this for sure ! You can't even imagine what life prepares for you! "

I think for earlier version of ourselves it would helped a lot ! It would have warmed and have given hope and confidence in the future ( but first scared to :)) )

I want to ask,I wonder, if you ones could look back or go back in time,in a difficult moment of your life,what would you tell yourself?

![1.jpg](https://steemitimages.com/DQmaqcYvFW3BFwqoXwRNExWYvU9PRJShQbbzXy4bqC58xK6/1.jpg)

May be:" don't worry,you will find a good job very soon!" Or :" don't be sad,your great true LOVE is near!!!" Or simply :" Yes,now you're really hurting. But this pain will pass. It will not remain even a trace!"...

And if right now the best version of you from your future might come to visit you,what would you like to hear from her/from him ;) ?

I'll be glad if you share your thoughts :)!

Thanks for your attention :)!
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@mohammadsaleh ·
Great looking and gorgious pic u r looking so beautifull  dear..god bless u dearr..
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@happyolly ·
:) Thank you @mohammadsaleh ^-^
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@ddrfr33k ·
I would tell myself: "Brian was right.  It's gonna take you 10 years to figure that out, unless you figure it out sooner."
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@happyolly ·
:) Thanks for sharing ! I hope Brian advised you something good :)?
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@ddrfr33k ·
Not necessarily, but what I needed to hear and what I should have listened to.  He was right, I was wrong.  And it took me far too long to realize it.  I would have much happier as a kid if I had.
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@ddrfr33k ·
Also, you remind me of Scarlett Johanson.  Just saying.
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@happyolly ·
This is interesting...a Few times different people told me that :) Scarlett Johansson is beautiful! But I don't see much similarities :)) But I am very pleased,thank you ^-^!
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@ddrfr33k ·
It's your smile and your cheekbones.  Very similar structure.
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@nearbird ·
I know perfectly well that I would have told to an early version of myself and what I would like her to do. Unfortunately, this is already impossible. Maybe you'll guess what I'm talking about, but in any case it's not a public revelation ...
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@happyolly ·
My dear,of course,it is not necessary to tell your innermost thoughts to all! I just wanted us thinking about this topic ;) Thank you for wrote a few words about your thoughts :*
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@love-your-wild ·
So nice! I would tell myself: You are beautiul and perfect! And have trust in your life, everything what comes in your way will make sense later. Enjoy your life. It is amazing and perfect. Just like you <3
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@happyolly ·
So nice words for younger you,honey ^-^. I agree! You are really beautiful and yoa are great person!Thank you for sharing :*
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@cygon ·
Don't waste time in relationships that force you to neglect a part of your self. Be open in communicating your needs and move one when they aren't met. This goes for friendships and romantic partners.
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@happyolly ·
Its really good thoughts, words! I agree with you! Thank you for sharing :) !
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@megamax ·
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I wish you to find a wonderful and interesting work. That she brought not only material, but also moral well-being.
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@happyolly ·
Its really good! Thanks for sharing :)!
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@musicayfarandula ·
Well I would tell him to know how to enjoy life more, that he does not worry about so many things, that he lives life in the best way. Greetings from Venezuela, I hope we continue reading
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