I Am A Leader But I Would Never Tell You What To Do. by hitmeasap

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I Am A Leader But I Would Never Tell You What To Do.
<center>![leadconquer.png](https://steemitimages.com/DQmfRt4kFcANPXdbE1R9g8j43woQz767nqQmBDTkMGxwQdv/leadconquer.png)</center>

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<center><h2>*"Leadership is not managing people. No one wakes up and wants to be managed. We want to be lead by good leaders."*</h2></center>

I wrote that 5-6 months ago... Before I launched the @asapers and before I started to delegate Steem Power. However, it's more than 4 months ago since I started to delegate my Steem Power to others... ***And I have no plans to stop.***

<center>![delegations2.png](https://steemitimages.com/DQmXyNU8BS5bucU5RE5kfmJnZMnAHDUZx1EqFgkCNVmsmr6/delegations2.png)</center>

### I walk the walk and I talk the talk.
Whenever I answer questions I tell people what I've been doing myself. What I have done or what I am currently doing. I want my **actions** to serve as answers... That is the biggest difference between a **good** leader and a **bad** leader in my opinion.

> *"Do this or do that..."*

Words are **easy**. Actions are on another level and they often speak for themselves. That is why my answers are based on my own experience and my own knowledge. I tell people what I have done and certain things that work or not for me. I might tell people what they **could** do, or try, but I would **never** tell people what they **should** do...

Because people don't want to be managed, they want to be lead by good leaders.

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I could easily have mentioned more than a handful Steemians, who I believe are truly **good** leaders, but it would've been equally easy to mention **bad** ones, so I refrain from doing that.

Also, one important thing to remember is that you should **never** mention peoples **past** mistakes when they are trying to change. That's like throwing rocks at them while they climb a mountain.

However, Mahatma Gandhi said:

> *"Be the change that you wish to see in the world."*

And even though I would love to see some major changes in the world, I understand that I am only human... There's a limit to what one person can do, and I am well aware of my own limitations.

On Steemit on the other hand, I am still only human, but even the smallest **seaweed** have the possibility to **be** part of things.. As long as they dedicate themselves and work hard. Like Ned and Dan's child, Steemit, is their creation, I have my own baby to care for.

- I have the @asapers.

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![delegations.png](https://steemitimages.com/DQmX3H6ubKmMGkjRnAxTdDgWkSdf6SAqBb1FjB2hogti7Nv/delegations.png)

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I delegate 100% of my Steem Power in an attempt to improve the overall experience on Steemit. We obviously focus on newcomers and to help, teach and support new people as much as possible. Both on Steemit but also on [Discord](https://discord.gg/KKzNw2X).

However, we welcome **everyone**. Seaweed or whale.

I know that my delegations aren't **much** and I know they won't be life changing for anyone by itself, but, that's not the most important part. The most important part of this entire project is the **mindset**. The will to help others. No matter color, shape or form.

I am **positive** that the users I delegate my Steem Power to, will, in the future, at some point, help others in the same or similar way that I have helped them. And that is the foundation of everything. We look after each other and ourselves by doing that.

Until they are ready and able to help others in similar ways like I have helped them, they are **active** and **helpful** in many different ways. The @asapers curate, share the rewards and **help** others. 7 days a week.

None of us are getting paid, in terms of any form of salary for the things we do. We do it because we **believe** that we **can** and **will** accomplish things. We do it out of free will and due to generosity and our mindset. We do it because we **care**.

I could easily have used my Steem Power on myself and for myself. I could've used my Steem Power to maximize my own earnings as much as possible and to increase my own growth, but I use my Steem Power in the exact way I want to use it. Instead of selfishly increase my own earnings, I ignore those *"rich-quick"* thoughts and replace those thoughts with **long term** thoughts and goals.

I care. I teach. I help. I wouldn't say that I believe in Karma, but if Karma exists, I know I'll be plentiful rewarded for my deeds with time. Some people next to me might be whales and orcas by that time. They might have gone from minnow to dolphin... It doesn't really matter because I do what I do, without comparing myself with others.

I compare my **own** results I had **yesterday** with the results I get today. If I am fortunate enough to earn enough Steem Power to make a new or add an additional delegation to someone, that's what I will do. If I am lucky enough to gain 2 more followers today, and 1 more tomorrow, I'll be grateful for the generosity... 

And these are the things I compare. My results, with my own. That's how I will be able to decide if, what and when I should or could change certain things. It gives me insight and allows me to see how my approach works and if I need to tweak specific things or not. That is why I do weekly reports for instance.

It's not in an attempt to *brag* which some people actually have thought. It's more for myself than for anyone else. But it also allows me to be transparent and honest with my readers at the same time.

I let my numbers speak for themselves, but I keep track of my numbers at all times, so I am aware of why they might change. That's the ideal approach for me, and it's what's work best for me.


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<center>http://sourcepointcoaching.com/coaching/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/leadership.jpg</center>

I lead... And even though I might show you the door, I will never push you through the door. I will be standing next to you. I will support you. I will teach you, until you can open the door for yourself. This is my approach. This is my intention with the @asapers. 

- I am a support pillar.

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<center>![contact2.png](https://steemitimages.com/DQmRiVwxpE4xaxUBnzsViD3vuTr8REvMDdtZJCsCkqAR4Co/contact2.png)</center>

The **best** way to contact me is through **comments** on my articles **or** on [Discord](https://discord.gg/KKzNw2X)

I do have a life **outside** of Steemit and the @asapers, and I often get **multiple** messages each day so it *might* take some time for me to respond. Feel free to message me again if you haven't heard anything in a few hours or a day.

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<center><h2>Take A Look At This Article:</h2></center>
- [The Bank Of Knowledge.](https://steemit.com/steemit/@hitmeasap/the-bank-of-knowledge-everything-you-need-to-know-to-succeed-on-steemit-revamped-2016-2018-edition)

This article covers **many** aspects of Steemit, so please, make sure to read that **before** you send me questions you easily could've found the answer for. This makes it easier for everyone!

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<center><h2>Thank You For The Support!</h2></center>
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@africka ·
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@modernbukowski ·
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Really well put. (Attempting to not leave a generic comment but sometimes there just isn't more to add)
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@hitmeasap ·
Thank you, I appreciate it! It's not an easy task to leave generic, great and awesome comments at all times, so there's no need to worry! :)
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@melvadg ·
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>Words are easy. Actions are on another level and often speak for themselves. That is why my answers are based on my own experience and knowledge. I tell people what I've done and certain things that work or don't work for me. I could tell people what they could do or try, but I would never tell people what they should do...

Words contribute, but the example drags is super important being a leader to show humility first of all and there is nothing more satisfying than that a leader has respect and not fear, good leaders can bring their experience without managing the decisions of each other, I think many leaders are determined to make their followers do exactly what they want.
Thinking about your experience I feel that your idea of supporting without any benefit is a reason for admiration for many and that makes you a leader of respect, without leaving aside that the leader ultimately acts with the heart for the common good, from there is born a good leader.

Forgive my mistakes in English, I use a translator
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@hitmeasap ·
Thank you for your comment, I appreciate it and you're doing great, even though you're using a translator. I'm not an native English speaker either, so I am familiar with the struggles to write in English. :)

I don't really see myself as a leader, I see myself as me. Plain and simple. But I know others have said numerous times that I am a great leader to follow, a person with good leadership skills and so on..

Good or bad, that's for others to decide. :)
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@mistermercury ·
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I like your attitude and philosophy. I've been questioning the value of what I have to offer here on Steemit  over the last few days. I've decided I AM the one who must decide what I will give regardless of what others do or believe. I must be myself. I decide to care, to serve, to offer what I can to make it a better Steemit and a better world. I must honor myself and my work from my own integrity. Your post helped me see that. blessings.
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@hitmeasap ·
It's often hard to **be** the change. Especially in times when you don't even know **what** you can do. But to me yourself, that's a really good start! I'm glad you liked the article and I hope you'll be successful in your ventures! :)
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