<h2><strong>What are your child's dreams? Regardless of your answer, one thing is certain: determination, focus, and discipline are essential skills to achieve any goal. They are the ones that differentiate those who commit themselves to the end of those who give up on</strong> <strong>the first failure.</strong></h2>
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<h2><strong>Advice on what you should do early to educate your child to be determined and able to conquer what you want</strong></h2>
<p>Without determination, it is more difficult to achieve success in personal and professional life, even with talent. "There are many talented individuals who simply do not go to the end with their commitments," "The key to success, determination."</p>
It is necessary to stimulate skills such as sociability, curiosity, and dedication to our children. We must know the stories of people who managed to overcome their difficulties with effort and the stories of people who had everything to do well, but who accommodated what they had and did not dream of high or did not have enough discipline to achieve it. there.</p>


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<h2><strong>The determination if you learn</strong></h2>
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The good news is that all these characteristics, such as determination, focus, and discipline can be learned at home early. "Education must train children so they can learn to realize their dreams."

Although we can conquer dreams for our children, we parents can educate to have the best conditions to conquer them, such as having "an entrepreneurial spirit, proactivity, and ability to face the adversities of life without discouragement."

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<strong>How you can encourage the day-to-day development of skills necessary for your child to conquer his own dreams:</strong>
<h2><strong>Encourage your child to have dreams</strong></h2>
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The first step to conquer something is to believe that it is possible. If not, the person gives up before trying and the dream does not leave the plane of the imagination.</p>
The dream is a motivator for our personal efforts, like the study "Parents do not need to demand that the child change the history of the world, but they can encourage him to have the courage to dream and think big.</p>
Many parents, for example, try to convince the child that it is important to study so that he has a good job and can buy material goods, but really this should not be the driven, the child needs to perceive that if he studies he will be happier and You can choose a career that transforms the world.</p>


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<strong> Do not transfer your dreams to your child</strong>

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Many parents expect their children to do what they could not because of a lack of opportunities. But often children do not have the same dreams. "We all have frustrations in life, but the father can not accuse the son of solving it for him", the result of this imposition can be frustration. So much for the parents, who do not see their dream realized, as for the son, who feels guilty for having his own dreams and even more for disappointing the parents.</p>
<strong>Talk with your child to know what he thinks, his tastes, his abilities and his dreams. Thus, it is easier to respect the individuality of him</strong>.

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<h2><strong> Encourage the entrepreneurial and creative spirit</strong></h2>
Let's say a child comes with some new idea. If the parents ridicule her saying "what a beast idea", "that's crazy" or "that you will never get", they are unintentionally passing the message that the child should not have ideas because they are not good. Instead, parents should take the opportunity to transform interest in learning, such as researching related experiments on the Internet.</p>
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An entrepreneurial attitude is fundamental for those who want to realize dreams. Someone with proactivity, ability to plan, face adversity without discouragement is more likely to get there.</p>
<strong>Another suggestion is to take advantage of your child's questions. Instead of giving the prompt answer, how about encouraging the child to reflect on the possible answers or propose that they discover together?</strong></p>


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<h2><strong> Do not protect your child too much</strong></h2>
The one who loves wants to protect from suffering. That is natural and understandable! However, placing the child in a crystal ball is to avoid the opportunity that, early, can learn to deal in a positive and balanced with the frustrations, inevitable throughout life. So that he can learn to be determined and not give up easily, the child needs to face frustrations. With the support of parents, she is, yes, capable of facing situations such as losing a game, getting a low grade or not being invited to a birthday party.</p>
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<strong>What is the ideal position, then?</strong>. If your child arrives with a low grade and you know he did not study, do not avoid reality, you must make him understand his responsibility as a student.

<strong>Parents should welcome the child with affection and make him face reality. always, focusing on their virtues, showing them that they can work harder.</strong>

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<h1><strong> Educate for commitment</strong></h1>
Retreating in the first obstacle prevents you from getting where you want. Explain the importance of commitment and daily dedication, showing stories in which perseverance made a difference: use the example of sports idols to show that success does not fall from the sky and that you must persist and overcome obstacles.</p>
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Parents must intervene if the child starts everything, but nothing ends. It is common for the child to start courses and surrender after the first few weeks. "It is valid for her to experience different things until she finds something that she likes, but she may not like it at all," says educator Andrea Ramal. Parents should choose activities with children, which also develop autonomy and the ability to make decisions, and combine clear objectives with them, such as attending the end of the semester. "This educates because it makes the child perceive the consequences of the decisions he makes and makes him more responsible."</p>

<h1><strong>Teach not to be afraid of being wrong</strong></h1>
He never represses an error of his son. Do not say things like "How could I lose that in the test?", "I do not think I still do not understand that" or other accusations that make your child feel smaller due to limitations. This gives the impression that he has the obligation to know everything, which is not true, and trembles for reprisals, desisting from taking his doubts in class, for example.</p>
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The error is not a sign of lack of talent. On the contrary, it should be seen as an opportunity to learn and succeed next time. Those who do not read well with errors and frustrations avoid challenging situations, are more prone to error and generally do not like to take risks and experiment, two very important actions for personal and professional development.</p>
<strong>"Error becomes the means to achieve an objective, it is part of the path to success."</strong>
Parents must understand that error is essential in the learning process and, therefore, avoid fights and exaggerated criticism, but without ceasing to charge, of course. The idea is to accept the error and avoid, for example, ridicule in the family. Always convey confidence in the child's potential to overcome the error.</p>
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<h2><strong>Value the effort</strong></h2>
Have you noticed that we give more value to our victories to the extent that they demand effort and dedication? Show your child that the effort brings rewards!</p>
If we believe that each one is born with a fixed amount of intelligence and creativity, failure is nothing more than the confirmation that we do not have that talent. This behavior causes people to avoid challenges (to keep looking smart), accommodate themselves and not handle criticism and errors well.</p>
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If, on the other hand, we believe that intelligence and creativity can be developed from the effort, each challenge will be adopted as an opportunity to learn new things and failure will be no more than an indication of being closer to success. "The conviction that it is possible to develop the desired qualities creates a passion for learning, why look for what is already known and tested, instead of the experiences that will make it develop?", Wrote the researcher in the book "Para some people "succeed" and others do not "(Editora Fontana).</p>
Praise your child's effort, even if you do not succeed at something. If you lose a competition, for example, talk to discover the reasons for the defeat and encourage it, and explain that next time you will be more prepared, if you continue training and fighting.</p>
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Be careful with phrases like "How smart you are! It took ten and I did not study!" Despite appearing to be a compliment, the child understands that whoever does not make an effort is intelligent. "The idea is to value the effort, regardless of the result," says Andrea Ramal. "Recognize work so it will help your child develop a self-improvement mentality, have persistence and not give up when things are not right," he adds.</p>

<h1><strong>Copper to the correct extent</strong></h1>
Parents should be careful not to charge more than the child can give. If the child does not have sports facilities, demanding gold medals will only bring unproductive frustrations. A miscommunicated rebuke can make you feel that parents do not like it or that it has no value to them. "That results in an insecure person in relationships, at work"</p>
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At the same time, loading "less" is also a problem, because it does not stimulate improvement. If, for example, your child receives a grade 6 and you respond "well, those things are boring, and I did not get more than that", the message is that you can continue as is. "Only those who want to improve try, if the child does not have that stimulus at home, it fits." The requirement to some extent helps to form a child with good self-esteem and determined to improve because he knows that he must strive to achieve his goals, but he has the constant support of parents in case of failure.</p>
<strong>Source of information</strong>
<ul>
 <li>https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/parenting/wp/2016/08/02/how-to-encourage-an-entrepreneurial-spirit-in-kids/?noredirect=on&amp;utm_term=.0e49f2e76120</li>
 <li>https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/12512603</li>
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