今天是个好日子—— 一(五十八) by julian2013

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今天是个好日子—— 一(五十八)
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今天是元旦,2019年的第一天,新年新气象,是个好日子。

蔡康永说:

> ”我不喜欢节日。我不喜欢别人规定我哪一天应该开心,又规定我哪一天应该特别想念哪些人。“

但是,我们仍旧在过着节日,有时似乎还很盼望。

**可能是平日里忙着生存的人太多了,为了生计奔波劳碌不停地奔跑,身后尘土飞扬。这样的人儿不能停,一停下来自己激起的尘土便淹没了自己,终成吃土一族。**

身边的人们都在努力奔跑,怎么忍心停下来?怎么敢停下来?

节日,给了人们一丝慰藉:可以心安理得堂而皇之地歇歇脚了,法定的,法律规定的,今天可以不用上班,不用早起,所有的人都可以休息,又是新年第一天,理应有个好心情,理应发生好事,理应喜气洋洋——即使昨天你还怨气十足。

这样想的人们,怎么说呢?也许他们只是——

# 假装在生活。

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所有的执念妄念怨念,并不是在这一天才有的。它一直都在你的心里,你只是找了一个借口,把它给表达出来。

节日其实改变不了什么。你该是什么样的,到头来还是什么样的。

你的心情不好,到了节日这一天,你的心情也不会转好。相反你的心情有可能变得更差。

因为你觉得节日的到来应该能让自己心情好起来,但实际上节日的到来什么都没有改变,世界还是那个世界,你,还是那个你。

**真实的日子没有开关,节日也承担不了这样的重任,它也只是日常生活的延续而已。**

你并没有出现想象中的如期心情好转。因为本来你的心情就没有好转。

你因为你真实的心情没有好转,变得更加愤怒:今天是节日,应该好转呀,为什么没有好呢?

因此,节日反而容易使你暴怒。

**生活中总会有灰尘,避免不了的。**

有了灰尘,把它擦掉,继续生活,而不是希望节日的到来,灰尘自动消失,一切光洁如初。

叔本华说:

> “如果我们把人生比作一条由炽热的煤炭铺成的环形跑道,中间有几处清凉的地点,而我们必须在这条跑道上不断奔驰,那么,陷于幻想中的人现在所站的那个清凉地点,或者眼看就要达到的那个凄凉地点,对于他就是一种安慰,而他马上又要离开这个地方到道路上奔驰。”

**节日,并不能成为人生清凉的落脚点,因为它的分布如此不均匀,怎么可能让我们合理地分配体力与心绪?**

天地不仁,毁人不倦。实际上,这天地亿万年来就是这样,你并没有引起它们的注意,它们也根本看不到你。

是你觉得它毁了你,便会有源源不断的证据露出;就像如果你觉得老天总是在帮幸运地你,你也能找到完整的证据链。

**我们的希望,不在每一个节日,而在每一天。**

这是一棵圣诞树。但没有人规定,这只能在圣诞节摆出来。

![](https://steemitimages.com/0x0/https://ipfs.busy.org/ipfs/Qme4jjCcdvQxE1H6hL2Afdm7rPVSwjaSh2utMC4LGejtYo)

如果节日能够成为救星,那么,每一天都是节日,每一天都能摆出圣诞树让自己过节。

今天是元旦,

**今天个好日子,**

每天都是好日子,

**每天也都应该是个好日子。**

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零一系列汇总,请看:
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@kadishakho ·
😄!才開年的第一天就看到這麼多的苦水浮在眼前啊😯

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@julian2013 ·
苦吗?……

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@kadishakho ·
不苦!面對現實,調整心態,生活還是要面對會覺得天理何在?這個是心態的問題!💕

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@hqy ·
一好百好!
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@julian2013 ·
也祝贺老师万事如意!

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@softmetal ·
汇总是咋回事?怎么只有57?
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@julian2013 ·
把力气用完了,写不动剩下的了

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@softmetal ·
需要打点鸡血

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@treeplanter ·
Thanks for your donation
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