https://newappaz.oss-accelerate.aliyuncs.com/wherein_images/post/20210114/f0fe9e54054f462dacc28f9a9a3ca6d2.png https://newappaz.oss-accelerate.aliyuncs.com/wherein_images/post/20210114/05b7ac60f0ff47998ceb948ee51ae42d.png https://newappaz.oss-accelerate.aliyuncs.com/wherein_images/post/20210114/629ef0ca7512469e85de9a0efa34f902.png 今天孩子放假了，在紧张的同时有点如释重负。每个学期末，大量的作业搞得孩子苦不堪言，考完试了至少可以短暂的放松一下，想想不由得松了一口气。 坐在窗前记录心情的时候，被自己的状态吓一大跳。什么时候我竟如此多的介入到孩子的学习中，把学习的负担转嫁到了自己身上。这样的状态合适吗？答案是否定的。 可是，我相信全国有不在少数的家长拥有和我一样的状态。这显示了一个什么问题呢？家长的教育理念和教育的弊端吗？有关教育方面的专家实在太多，我们今天看了这个有理，明天看了那个也不错。于是，庞大繁杂的教育理念在心里不断冲突，弄得自己失去了方向，孩子也无所适从，结果和当初的目的完全背离。 如何化解这个尴尬呢？也只有通过大量的学习深耕自己，完善自己，用清晰的思维找出一个真正适合孩子和自己的方法。我相信，在学习中我的迷惘会逐渐减少，最终给予我满意的回馈。
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| author | julian2013 |
| permlink | wherein-1610628986 |
| category | wherein |
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| last_update | 2021-01-14 12:56:27 |
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| last_payout | 2021-01-21 12:56:27 |
| cashout_time | 1969-12-31 23:59:59 |
| total_payout_value | 0.614 SBD |
| curator_payout_value | 0.573 SBD |
| pending_payout_value | 0.000 SBD |
| promoted | 0.000 SBD |
| body_length | 702 |
| author_reputation | 243,594,044,729,202 |
| root_title | 学习 |
| beneficiaries | [] |
| max_accepted_payout | 1,000,000.000 SBD |
| percent_steem_dollars | 10,000 |
| author_curate_reward | "" |
| voter | weight | wgt% | rshares | pct | time |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| cnfund | 0 | 8,225,559,093 | 36.5% | ||
| elizacheng | 0 | 7,662,510,715 | 5.18% | ||
| wilkinshui | 0 | 33,939,872,537 | 36.5% | ||
| aaronli | 0 | 46,324,694,310 | 36.5% | ||
| shenchensucc | 0 | 38,107,382,641 | 36.5% | ||
| susanli3769 | 0 | 47,037,052,419 | 36.5% | ||
| davidmendel | 0 | 8,767,634,085 | 36.5% | ||
| pixelfan | 0 | 18,586,281,260 | 3.5% | ||
| syh7758520 | 0 | 9,486,892,028 | 36.5% | ||
| mrspointm | 0 | 14,944,918,076 | 36.5% | ||
| liumei | 0 | 13,547,735,337 | 36.5% | ||
| rosatravels | 0 | 247,433,115,880 | 36.5% | ||
| sunray | 0 | 41,922,762,249 | 36.5% | ||
| winniex | 0 | 9,434,795,144 | 36.5% | ||
| qifenggan | 0 | 2,712,574,678 | 36.5% | ||
| windowglass | 0 | 96,838,399,736 | 36.5% | ||
| cnbuddy | 0 | 1,361,344,440,835 | 100% | ||
| iamafra | 0 | 5,341,606,030 | 36.5% | ||
| cheva | 0 | 70,065,257,230 | 36.5% | ||
| maiyude | 0 | 81,077,475,614 | 36.5% | ||
| wilhb81 | 0 | 154,939,910,654 | 36.5% | ||
| emmali | 0 | 2,726,950,633 | 36.5% | ||
| youandme | 0 | 4,940,576,005 | 36.5% | ||
| kirato | 0 | 132,417,961,932 | 36.5% | ||
| nostalgic1212 | 0 | 26,460,696,184 | 36.5% | ||
| shentrading | 0 | 2,560,175,380 | 36.5% | ||
| also.einstein | 0 | 3,874,430,324 | 36.5% | ||
| ericet | 0 | 62,305,033,320 | 36.5% | ||
| aellly | 0 | 7,817,375,706 | 36.5% | ||
| janicechua | 0 | 11,208,200,867 | 36.5% | ||
| andrewma | 0 | 11,424,718,876 | 36.5% | ||
| sbi3 | 0 | 85,816,053,606 | 72.45% | ||
| softmetal | 0 | 25,661,677,165 | 36.5% | ||
| tanlikming | 0 | 13,173,764,055 | 36.5% | ||
| robertyan | 0 | 561,344,784 | 36.5% | ||
| xiaoyuanwmm | 0 | 484,067,688 | 36.5% | ||
| team-cn | 0 | 108,130,788,552 | 25% | ||
| tiffany4ever | 0 | 204,633,153 | 36.5% | ||
| sunai | 0 | 19,232,143,840 | 36.5% | ||
| julian2013 | 0 | 106,052,112,019 | 100% | ||
| edwardchan | 0 | 825,224,300 | 36.5% | ||
| raynopssgold | 0 | 1,115,025,500 | 36.5% | ||
| biglotto | 0 | 2,281,460 | 36.5% | ||
| depend | 0 | 332,392,440 | 36.5% | ||
| shoday | 0 | 1,857,169,926 | 21% | ||
| slientstorm | 0 | 47,246,734,256 | 36.5% | ||
| pet.society | 0 | 60,192,902,566 | 36.5% | ||
| annepink | 0 | 21,682,840,912 | 36.5% | ||
| cherryzz | 0 | 11,420,377,624 | 36.5% | ||
| buo | 0 | 1,381,263,709 | 36.5% | ||
| teamcn-shop | 0 | 7,557,106,143 | 36.5% | ||
| yunki | 0 | 4,271,152,146 | 36.5% | ||
| steemcryptosicko | 0 | 107,674,078,499 | 15% | ||
| cloudblade | 0 | 29,224,481,171 | 36.5% | ||
| kelvinzhang | 0 | 2,099,204,881 | 36.5% | ||
| honey00 | 0 | 2,744,905,439 | 36.5% | ||
| ahua | 0 | 3,299,917,170 | 36.5% | ||
| ishare | 0 | 1,016,882,632 | 36.5% | ||
| morningshine | 0 | 48,646,439,902 | 36.5% | ||
| cnstm | 0 | 60,469,031,932 | 16% | ||
| cn-activity | 0 | 2,194,317,829 | 36.5% | ||
| berrydeng | 0 | 3,664,955,012 | 36.5% | ||
| davidchen | 0 | 24,484,964,187 | 36.5% | ||
| teamcn-fund | 0 | 373,948,660 | 36.5% | ||
| cecilian | 0 | 7,216,921,725 | 36.5% | ||
| good2believe | 0 | 2,446,231,958 | 36.5% | ||
| devyleona | 0 | 6,960,258,754 | 36.5% | ||
| happygoluckynow | 0 | 1,158,640,412 | 36.5% | ||
| mayiloveyou | 0 | 1,112,071,927 | 36.5% | ||
| goodsimplelife | 0 | 1,110,484,429 | 36.5% | ||
| yanhan | 0 | 23,154,632,807 | 36.5% | ||
| walker886 | 0 | 2,471,656,195 | 36.5% | ||
| m15197972567 | 0 | 1,837,734,625 | 36.5% | ||
| kgame | 0 | 1,205,379,003 | 36.5% | ||
| hertz300 | 0 | 15,355,691,148 | 36.5% | ||
| delta-clan | 0 | 611,259,210 | 36.5% | ||
| cn-zzang | 0 | 4,373,672,396 | 36.5% | ||
| cn-leo | 0 | 24,660,164 | 36.5% | ||
| cn-sct | 0 | 19,082,240,025 | 36.5% | ||
| cn-pal | 0 | 48,347,080 | 36.5% | ||
| xiaoq.sports | 0 | 4,360,507,475 | 36.5% | ||
| cn-marlians | 0 | 7,390,994,522 | 36.5% | ||
| hykwf678233 | 0 | 34,682,646,715 | 36.5% | ||
| hykwf233 | 0 | 819,169,109 | 36.5% | ||
| gillianlien | 0 | 5,542,932,784 | 36.5% | ||
| ericetchen | 0 | 134,628,945 | 36.5% | ||
| stevewu | 0 | 194,298,551 | 36.5% | ||
| kristinasiu | 0 | 440,613,028 | 36.5% | ||
| annzhao | 0 | 174,162,476 | 36.5% | ||
| cn-trail | 0 | 6,795,144,744 | 36.5% | ||
| bo022 | 0 | 152,397,655,357 | 36.5% | ||
| gillianlienmap | 0 | 1,313,271,515 | 36.5% | ||
| steem.buzz | 0 | 134,690,918 | 36.5% | ||
| lovequeen | 0 | 23,664,256,521 | 36.5% | ||
| familyonline-tv | 0 | 24,227,724,365 | 36.5% | ||
| bo022022 | 0 | 33,931,938,191 | 36.5% | ||
| plato2005 | 0 | 2,613,106,575 | 36.5% | ||
| llllyyyyllll | 0 | 1,781,276,132 | 36.5% | ||
| iu1314 | 0 | 895,003,510 | 36.5% | ||
| sweetime | 0 | 299,628,333 | 36.5% | ||
| capehorn | 0 | 95,211,236 | 36.5% | ||
| xiaobao | 0 | 2,197,963,164 | 36.5% | ||
| tenki | 0 | 1,868,936,892 | 36.5% | ||
| kitgfdsa5 | 0 | 40,070,408 | 36.5% | ||
| lucienyong | 0 | 1,405,298,535 | 36.5% | ||
| xiaomalailiao | 0 | 731,273,839 | 36.5% | ||
| iris08 | 0 | 5,532,210,897 | 36.5% | ||
| yuyusong | 0 | 25,294,573,394 | 36.5% | ||
| josuenahum04 | 0 | 75,712,372 | 20% | ||
| zete | 0 | 2,451,355,626 | 36.5% | ||
| yikoutian | 0 | 2,384,635,957 | 36.5% | ||
| little-yellow | 0 | 1,253,826,350 | 36.5% | ||
| cittriy | 0 | 7,117,560,512 | 36.5% | ||
| wo5 | 0 | 3,035,721,167 | 36.5% | ||
| w711jy | 0 | 2,437,295,764 | 36.5% | ||
| tt0215 | 0 | 13,180,402,454 | 36.5% |