三(八十三):损者三友 by julian2013

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三(八十三):损者三友
昨天说了[益者三友](https://busy.org/@julian2013/zmc8pyvk),孔老夫子显然是为了凑“三”这个数,漏了有钱的朋友。

今天,来看看他说的损者三友:友便辟,友善柔,友便佞,损矣。

意思是说:
>与谄媚逢迎的人交朋友,与表面奉承而背后诽谤人的人交朋友,与善于花言巧语的人交朋友,是有害的。

这又是为了数字好看,漏了损友中的核武器——情绪黑洞,垃圾人。

你要是一不小心和情绪黑洞做了朋友,那不只是一友顶三友,简直就是一友毁所有。

黑洞一出,无人幸免!

这个情绪黑洞很有迷惑性。当你初识的时候,听到黑洞的种种抱怨,还可能会产生同情,激发了你的善心,开始打抱不平,由此结交成为好友。

但是在接下来的相处中,你会发现,这人似乎是祥林嫂附体,逢人就拉着述说自己的不幸,而且还没完没了,数十年如一日,搞的身边的人对他的遭遇都能倒背如流。

这样的人活在抱怨里,似乎全世界都与他为敌,能够吞噬身边的一切,就算你有超人的正能量,也会被一吸而空,似乎你的幸福也都成为了虚幻,会让你开始怀疑人生。

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图源:[](https://pixabay.com/get/ee3cb80f21f01c3e815d400de04b4e93fe76e7d01db8184094f3c0_1920.jpg)

你最初的好言相劝耐心安慰对他没有一点作用,他是习惯性吐槽,吐完了以后他倒头就睡了,留下你在原地纠结。

和他交流过后,你的心就像是被扔了原子弹的广岛长崎,寸草不生,贻害无穷。

对于这样整日抱怨的情绪黑洞,离得越远越好,千万不要抱着核弹睡觉,寿星公上吊嫌命长,珍惜生命,远离黑洞。

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