天下没有不是的父母!kadishakho 并不认同这一句话的全部!父母对孩子的爱发自内心这是无可否认!但是过分的宠爱和管束就不是真正的爱了。爱孩子有很多的方式,如果说孩子什么都必须要听从家长的吩咐!那么就不要怪孩子不懂得独立自主。如果家长什么事情都为孩子安排好了,那么又何必要孩子独立自主呢? 孩子是一个个体不是自己的私人产品,但是很多的家长都忘记了这一点!一方面要孩子可以独立自强另一方面又要孩子样样听从自己的安排!这是自相矛盾的想法,很可悲!家长们在教育孩子的过程中忘记了,自己也是从孩子的过程成长,今天成为了别人的父母亲!忘记了孩子的成长是由儿童,少年,青年到成年!每个成长的阶段有不同的教育方式教导孩子。 如果在孩子的成长过程中,父母亲有尽到父母应该付的责任教育孩子。那么这个孩子就不需要什么事情都由父母亲安排好!爸爸和妈妈们孩子长大了应该放手让孩子走自己的路! 孩子们知道自己要的是什么,走的是什么路!无需家长们当心,家长们只要鼓励孩子给孩子自信心!如果孩子的每一样事情都由父母亲们安排和策划!kadishakho 认为这是剥夺了孩子独立自主的权力,是父母亲们不让孩子成长! 所以天下没有不是的父母吗?原因是很多的父母亲们在孩子需要他们的时候,父母亲是在打拼自己的事业!把孩子交由其他人来教育孩子,忽略了对孩子应该尽到的责任!到了孩子不需要父母亲的时候才发现自己和孩子的距离越来越远了!所以有很多的父母亲们就用物质来满足孩子!减少对孩子的愧疚和孩子内心的需要!以为这样就是对孩子的关爱和教育!悲哀啊! 有舍必有得!不舍得放弃事业又要孩子什么都是最棒的,可能吗?想要自己的事业成功又不需要付出任何的责任教育孩子!可是又要孩子可以自强自主,爸爸和妈妈们,三思啊!待续。。。 ![InkedWhatsApp Image 2018-09-20 at 15.14.51_LI.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmaj3xHG2iCWEZYTFvrChDsJemc1w4WSmYecejPyBcjifa/InkedWhatsApp%20Image%202018-09-20%20at%2015.14.51_LI.jpg) <br /><center><hr/><em>Posted from my blog with <a href='https://wordpress.org/plugins/steempress/'>SteemPress</a> : http://kadishakhoblog.kristiankho.com/%e5%ad%a9%e5%ad%90%e3%80%82%e3%80%82%e3%80%82%e4%bd%a0%e5%92%8c%e6%88%91%e7%9a%84%e5%ad%a9%e5%ad%90%e3%80%82%e3%80%82%e3%80%823/ </em><hr/></center>
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陪伴比什么都重要 Posted using [Partiko iOS](https://steemit.com/@partiko-ios)
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对!尤其是孩子很需要父母亲陪伴的时候!
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养儿一百岁,常优九十九啊鸡 meimei Posted using [Partiko Android](https://steemit.com/@partiko-android)
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鸡 koko 说的对,父母必须学会放手!不然就只能忧 99了!
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父母责任确实重大啊 所以到现在都不敢生娃 😂 怕养不好
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不要给自己太大的压力! 如果怕教不好就树立好榜样给孩子学习啊! 你可以的,加油!💗
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