Wonderful post
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I usually like to start day with the fun, urgent, but not important tasks.

I am trying to rewire my brain to move towards the hard, important task that will help me achieve my business goals.

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being  miserable is quite a choice! We are completely  responsible for the state of our temperament and emotions. we cant run around and blame people  or the occurrences around our lives for our feelings swinging.....take responsibility and control your feelings.  peace and happiness comes from within.

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Good luck to you.  We all go through these funks and life is not as fun as we would like it to be and/or life doesn't go our way.
Keep your head up and things will turn around and you will feel better.
Thanks for sharing.

Hey @kaylinart! I have quite a bit of experience selling on Shopify – I'm actually also setting up a new store to sell t-shirts this week. There are a few apps that can really help you: a countdown timer, a cart abandonment email, and Recently are all a few I'd consider.

I'd love to trade some more ideas if we decide to meet and chat. I've sent you a message on another platform ;-). Maybe we can find some time soon. Sorry to hear that you've felt "miserable" lately – hopefully it's just a quick phase, kind of ​like the upcoming lunar eclipse!

Thank you for your words, I live trapped not in an area of comfort but in a routine that suffocates me. What worries me is that I do not see salinity and my emotional and mental state are at a minimum. I have thought of easy salaries but I am afraid, I want to travel but I can not because of economic problems among other things.
I do not have a girlfriend, I'm not married and that makes me think badly about myself, my aura is negative and I do not know what to do.
I will try to break the routine, I hope soon things will change for me.

This post really connects with me on a deep level. Awesome post. Upvoted and resteemed.

Great post, really made me think about my repetitive daily routines that can subconsciously bring my mood down without me really realising. 
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I'm sure he will pop that special question at the right time :)

I quit my job about 4 years ago, and now a former friend of mine who does what I used to do, is getting married and asked if I could cover for him this month, I couldn't find a good excuse to say no, so I am working and I tell you once you are a bum which is what I have been for the last 4 years working is a very sad experience, all I want right now is for August to end.

I love my routine and often feels anxious if it gets disrupted. Routine makes me feel secure. I know it's an illusion but it does give me a sense of peace and in control of my life. But I do feel restless and bored sometimes and when it happens I would bug my husband to go for a short trip elsewhere.

I hope everything is well between you and your boyfriend :)

@kaylinart Hi, I am here for you.  We all are.  May I suggest consuming more conscious, high energy, electrifying, raw foods.  They will calm the mind, help reconnect you, detoxify and regenerate you on all levels.  Mucho amor amiga! Namaste

Don't let your boyfriend bring you down. You should meet my girlfriend she knows I disappoint her all the time but thats because no one can read minds! Like she cant read mine and I cant read hers

I totally agree that having something to look forward to adds excitement in our life. I can almost use the analogy of dating and marriage. When we are new into a relationship, we look forward to many things and then we get married and things start to feel old as the years roll by. Breaking the habit breaks boredom.  It's true... we have to constantly do something different, learn something new so we can always feel refreshed about LIFE!  Kudos to your post!

Inspiring and so true post!)

So your boyfriend is not thinking about your future together? He's not even planning for it?

Well, that's ok. YOU do the planning and tell him what you are planning. Tell him to get with the program. 

If what you want is marriage etc, then tell him. It doesn't have to be next week, or next month or even next year. But tell him that's what you want and that you are planning for it.

He will either
1 - run away
2 - say he's not ready
3 - say he's not ready, but secretly plan stuff
4 - say he's not ready, but come around to your way of thinking after he's had a bit of time to process it
5 - totally get on board wit it

Whatever it is, putting off the discussion, while it might seem the safest approach, is not really helping.

hows that for stepping out of your comfort zone? Risky enough for you?

I told my wife a short while after we moved in together that maybe we should set up a meeting to have a discussion about the possibility of talking about maybe thinking along the  lines of sometime in the future being open to a conversation about the possibly remote chance that we might one day get married.

She phone up Crete that night and invited half of the island to our wedding. the church and priest were booked, the venue, food and wine sorted, rings made - all before I even proposed.

So you never really know when someone is going to surprise you ;-)

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When I looked at the pic of your post, these song lines appeared in my head -
" I used to believe
   we are running edge of something beautiful"
Hey sorry may be these are irrelavent to your post...

But, seriously, after reading all these, I highly doubt your boyfriend's commitment with you....

Since a year  now I start my day writing down 10 things that I am thankful. Then I workout for 30 min. Could be Yoga or some cardio. 
Then when I have my breakfast I write down the goals of the day. Not a to do list...for me "to do"is a must. And a lot of times with a must I go the oppisite way.
And when I feel a bit lost at one moment then I check my Goals of the day-list.
Try to read the book ....he's just not that into you. When I was dating it was really an eyeopener for me.
And before I go to bed I write again 10 things that I am thankful for and send love to 3 people that I truly care about. It's an excersize from Bob Proctor.

And try to enjoy the little things in life. You will get there....I believe in you.

Something good gonna happen to you soon

aww Kaylin thanks for sharing! I totally get what you mean. When things get to comfy they can become boring and routine. Sometimes when I get down, I get on tedtalk.com and listen to motivational people speaking. It seems to help and it gets me inspired to keep working on my own projects. 

As for boyfriends and relationships, those are complicated. If your ready for the next move, but he's not, I guess it's important to weigh how long you want to wait around. Time is a precious thing, and if he's not the one it's okay, but staying in limbo forever wouldn't be the best solution. Although, I feel we are both pretty young, and why no just enjoy life too! Love happens when it happens, no point in rushing it. :)

Amazing post. Sad a bit but amazing. I love the part - If you only do what is easy, You can't grow.
When you become too comfortable, You become miserable.
Do what you are avoiding!- Soooo true and i don't know how to get out from there. I wouldn't say my life is miserable but boring a bit for sure cause every day seems the same. Keep going girl. :)

It was so "on time"! At the moment I also feel something like you do. Thank you for this post, t really got me thinking in other way!

@kayliart - **Heyyyy -  I did not expect a radiant and energetic person like you to say There is nothing to look forward to.     I do understand that you feel sad and heartbroken because you expected progressing your relationship to the next level. However, sometimes these things just take time.  I can tell you through personal experience that even finding a person that is made for you takes a  couple of tries.  :)**    Please cheer up and apply yourself with zest as you usually do.  I have heard great things about the Amazon store based business.  If you already are into that then it is great.  I am sure your T Shirt designs will be amazing.  Expecting to see a blog about them soon.

Sorry I have not been able to respond earlier. I was traveling in a remote area with very spotty coverage.  I could not see blogs and posting anything myself was a remote possibility.  Only today I could post one of my blogs and then could start to catch up on seeing what I missed in blogs over last 3-4 days.

Do take care and feel free to chat with me if it helps.  We, the Steemians always stick together through thick and thin.

Been going through a bit of the same myself and it's not an easy cycle to break out of. Instead of breaking out of it, I've been trying to appreciate and count the misery as part of the cycle that will eventually pass. I'm sure you're on the right track.

I must agree , after being forced for an arranged marriage I lost hope in life and everything , I hated my life I hated everyone . I began to give up , until I got pregnant , I told myself that this would be my chance to pick my life back up and do it for him or her , and it's working , he's coming next month and I'm sort of keeping hope . @kaylinart just hand in there , it won't rain forever

I can read between the lines that you are a bit frustrated at the moment, and I know the feeling, to well. I have had the big wedding, I have two growing kids, I had a divorce and when I was turning 40 I was like "whats up now?" "whats next?" And there was nothing. Well at least nothing "big" or exciting. And as you say, we should take every chance to try something new, to do scary things and live our lives  fully, every day, and not just when some big event is coming up. Great written post, thanks for sharing!
My best tips today is to go outdoors, nature for me is calming and healing and it always works:-)

Wow you seriously brighten my day with your posts, almost as if you knew what was going on inside my head. Its so easy to get stuck in the habit loop as you said, and I often wish my life was as exciting as the ones I see on my instagram feed. But in the end, we are all fighting an inner battle, and the grass is not greener on the other side. I hope this will motivate me to step out of my comfort zone and take risks without looking back.

Thank you for being a guide. And I will make sure to check your shopify 	💙

Awesome, totally agree with you, there's always a need to move out of one's comfort zone to achieve more in life

That eclipse... So excited for it! Last weekend I went to Joshua Tree specifically to see the starry night. I'm a dork.

its a slump when the one you fall for so long isnt as committed as you are but someone else can for sure treasure you even more and youll have no regarts

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