There are so many fears, disappointments, the pain we can not devote entirely to the magic, called love. We hide behind masks, we play theater, we get fantasies, we do everything but love.

We lose ourselves, our own identity of loving creatures. Love is the only way to open our hearts. The divine spark through which we feel alive is the only way to be ourselves, confident, proud, loving ... humble. To love without expectations, no claims, no requirements - great!

*How do I open my heart?*

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**Whatever you give, you get that**

Love is fire, and every fire needs fuel. Charge yourself with good mood, good friends, with your favorite experiences. Fulfill yourself with love - to yourself, to the opposite sex, to all people. Your heart must be filled with love, so you can give it to others. For this purpose, you must know, accept, like, love. Do not be punished with self-accusations. Be tolerant not only to others but mostly to yourself. Do not underestimate, do not hurt, do not be depressed.

Support your spirit and self-confidence with reading, creative work, rest, embarrassment, care for your appearance. Make compliments. Do not use common expressions, but try to make some personal qualities to the one they are directed to. Take compliments with a smile and gratitude. Support others with good words. Support others to believe. At the appropriate time, it is possible for you to return your gesture. When somebody is restless, sad, desperate, tell him that you understand him and that you have a similar situation. If someone criticizes you, try to believe that this is not done by malice. Take the art of conversation.

**What you attract is your mirror**

What are people in your field? Look at them well - you look alike. Do not you believe it? What you attract - this is your mirror. When you change, you do not need to scream, say it, it is enough to see your closest people change with you or be the same. Take care of yourself - of your body, of your development. Personal development is a lonely process, but it is worth it.

There is no way you can achieve different results than you have before, without doing new and new things. Expand your capabilities for good performance, speaking, behavior. Surround yourself with people you admire. There is nothing unnatural to break up with some of your close friends from your past. Choose your friends.

**What you think is your reality**

Repeat your thoughts every day: "I see love", "I feel love", "I am love", "Love is in my hands". When you say it, you feel filled with confidence. Let your love come to you, visualize it, invite it to your heart. Do not be afraid to risk. Confident people are not afraid of change. Whatever comes to you, do not overlook it, do not repress fears, do not calm down with expressions such as: "I do not care," "It's all mine." Know what you want.

Be open, polite, sincere, without using manipulative techniques and unnecessary pretensions. Try to understand the motives, emotions and feelings of other people. Be curious about the world and people, strive to learn something new every day. Always trust your feelings and observe how your body reacts. It always gives an indication if something is wrong. Do not idealize your partner. Do not make hasty conclusions and solutions based on superficial, incomplete information. Show your partner strength, confidence, intellect, but do not hesitate to show your weaknesses. Be open, create warmth, cheerfulness and coziness around you.

Thank you for reading it. 
Much love - Krisii