Great dads are wonderful by linnyplant

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· @linnyplant · (edited)
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Great dads are wonderful
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If you took the time to squint and read it, it’s a letter from one of my 8 y.o. twin daughters to my husband.  He proudly showed it to me just now.  We don’t have a cat, but I’m sure it’s him in the picture.  lol.

We talk about mothers, moms, and mums often, but I personally know of so many dads who take an equal partnership in raising their children.  It’s always a wonderful thing to see, a dad fully engaged and taking on the responsibility of fatherhood.  You can tell they are exhausted at work, but it doesn’t matter to them.  They’re fulfilled.  

I tell this to people often because I want my husband to be recognised for his part, I breastfed my twins to just under 2 years.  It was such a hard thing to do.  It often resulted in a lot of tears and frustrations.  I empathise with women who struggle through this.  I only persisted because my husband wanted what he felt was the best start for his babies.  He sat up for every single breastfeed session overnight to do his part to support me.  He did the nappies, he did the burping, he settled them back in their cot.  He went to work each day.  I never did anything but provide the milk.   I’m grateful for his support.  

Great dads are wonderful, and you deserve lots of hugs if you are one of them.  
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@jayna ·
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That is adorable, @linnyplant. I also have twins. They're 17 1/2! But all of this really takes me back. Good job to their dad for being such a wonderful papa!
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@linnyplant · (edited)
Oh, I didn’t know you had twins.  :)

Those first 3 years were tough.  We pretty much isolated ourselves during that time being too busy surviving.   We were a stubborn pair and wanted to do it all ourselves.  After that, life is a noisy party.  The girls adore their dad and I like to pretend to be jealous.  Like the time daddy got a super cool light box for Father’s Day (they get to choose gifts at school to buy).  I asked why Mummy only got this on her special day 

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—I love to troll my twins.  🤣

Thank you for the lovely comment.  ❤️
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@jayna ·
The first few years are definitely trying! I had help. I had a three year old when they were born, and the idea of managing all that was too much! Ha ha, that’s a funny story about the light box vs. the bath scrunchy!
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@riverflows ·
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Aw, hugs to all the great Dads!! Cutest picture. Dads can get either a bad rap (they don't pay maintenance, they're out drinking with the boys etc) or a undeserved good one (look at the guy doing x with his kids on the weekend, isn't he great? - when he does NOTHING TO HELP otherwise or through the week) and sometimes they are just genuinely awesome Dads, as they should be. xx Well done you for choosing a good one. 
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@linnyplant ·
Lol.  I still had sleep in my eyes when I put that post together quickly. I didn’t realise my twin did her special treatment in all her drawings, everyone including the cat is winking.

Yes, I agree with you.  That’s one thing that does happen, we do give dads extra kudos when we see them out with the kids alone.  My husband loves all the attention he gets when he’s out with the girls.  They get a lot of free stuff.   He gets all the ladies smiling at him and making approving noises. 

Me? 

Meh!  I’m just a Mum with her kids.  Boringly expected!  Lol

Thank you for the visit, it’s always a pleasure to see you drop by.  ❤️
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@riverflows ·
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I intentionally ignore men with children for this reason..  it's the feminist in me haha. Xxx 

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@davidke20 ·
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Amazing hubby indeed. Tired after working hour, mission fulfilled, but there are a lot of frustration as well. The only consolation prize is head home and find some peace with a lovely waifu and the kids are in bed so daddy can have dessert. But that's in our imagination la. Usually a regular Chinese husband reached home to find a yellow face waifu shouting and asking why come home so late? Why got perfume smell? Why underwear is wearing correctly, it was wrongly wear inside-out in the morning! And stepping on Lego pieces on the floor is really a big trigger of all volcanoes. Kekekekeke... Anyway, I'm glad to spent the first 8 month of my elder together since I was jobless back then, and ex-girlfriend go to work. Fortunately I have no breast to feed the kid, but bottle-fed does the same magic 😂

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@linnyplant · (edited)
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>Usually a regular Chinese husband reached home to find a yellow face waifu shouting and asking why come home so late? Why got perfume smell? Why underwear is wearing correctly, it was wrongly wear inside-out in the morning! And stepping on Lego pieces on the floor is really a big trigger of all volcanoes. Kekekekeke...

Ok, I burst out laughing.  You Chinese peeps call wifey ‘yellow face waifu’?!  I hope you get a hard wack to the side of your head for that one. 😛 

And are you sure this is a generalization?  I’m suspicious this is a paragraph out of your auto-biography titled,  *My Secret Lives of Extra-girlfriends*.  Because, really, you don’t know how to wear your underwear properly?  Come on, davidke!  But please, don’t even think to post on it and scare us, you might earn some flags.  

Yes, the LEGO pieces can are dangerous...

You also kekekeke?!  @supersoju does that too!  She’s my missing steemian friend, I miss her cat...😿

>Anyway, I'm glad to spent the first 8 month of my elder together since I was jobless back then, and ex-girlfriend go to work. 

Ooooh, the intrigue. Ms Ex-girlfriend is the mother of your first!  Very interesting. :)

>but bottle-fed does the same magic

Yeah, there were times I wanted to switch to bottle, but we work as a team, hubby and I.  It’s what he felt strongly about and both our work situation allowed for me to take time off for motherhood.   But I know many women don’t have this option, so we must each do what works for our situation.  Even bottle feeding would be hard, it looks like a lot of prep work!

Thank you for smiles from your chirpy entry to my blog post! ❤️
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@davidke20 ·
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Kekekekeke..... 😂 Ex-girlfriend is a very sporting person. She resigned and we we got our second kid in the house. Since then, all her attention goes to the boy instead of me 🙄 I am the one whose happily at her service. House chore are usually my part of the work after working hour. So, yeah it kinda worked out that way. Normal and peaceful life with two noisy kids.

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@ryivhnn ·
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Excuse me breastfeeding is exhausting.  Especially when you're tandem feeding (which I did for ages but there were two year gaps between all of mine! :O)  Plus you theoretically had to wake up (unless he masterfully attached them to your boobs while you were still sound asleep).  So none of that you "did nothing" bollocks.  It was pretty cool that he sat up with you though :D

Yay for good dads!

And whichever child that was (or both?) is pretty good at drawing XD (and already know to use winks as the secret technique to avoiding having to try to make the eyes look the same ;D)

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@linnyplant · (edited)
Yes, breastfeeding was tough work.  Even though I had twins, I couldn’t tandem, so I’m always impressed by women who could.  Just like I could never breastfeed lying down and envied women who could.  I lacked breastfeeding talent and had to do an armful at a time, which just extended the staying up for poor, tired hubby.  

It was important for me he was there by my side.  Some women are very independent of their husband,  but that’s not me.  I’m always dragging him around everywhere and include him in all my interests.  I’m comforted by his presence and we’ve always bounced off each other.  That’s why you will often read me mentioning him.  It was a massive change for him to have such a demanding person in his life.  He’s one of those who prefer to sit alone in a corner and read the newspaper.  Although, these days he’s more likely to sit at a portal and glyph hack in between reading the news.   ;)  

My babies were born in winter and we’ve discussed previously the hatred of cold, I suffered loudly.  Lol. Poor man had to put up with a lot of whining and is servant to 3 demanding females, so it’s just as well he’s cheap labour and can be paid in hugs!  :)
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@ryivhnn ·
What if he doesn't want to be included XD

Ahh you poor soul D: I could actually only do it lying down when I first started, doing it sitting up was extremely difficult til my mother helped me out (in a completely different way to how the nurses at the hospital I had the oldest at were trying to show me how to do it).  After that everything became so much easier especially when I figured out how to sling feed XD

My partner and I used to be like that.  Then he started doing the wage slavery bullshit and now we barely see each other as he likes to start and finish early so he gets up at get stuffed o'clock (which does wake me up but I generally don't like getting out of bed the hour later that I do get up never mind earlier XD), trots off to work his regular 8hr days and just as he's walking in the door I'm running some child off to an activity so it's like "hi babe how was your day love you bye".  So best I can do is send him photos throughout the day when we're out doing fun stuff or tell him about the cool things and whine about when the kids are giving me a hard time XD

Ahhh I'm so glad mine were all summer babies! It's okay I would have made sure everyone knew precisely to what degree I was suffering too XD

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@nikv ·
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A very special dad!
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@linnyplant ·
Thank you.  ❤️ 
He’s very special to me.  :)
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@peter2017 ·
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Hey Linny, I hope you're not mad at me for not commenting for a long time. Since last Friday I am somehow through the wind, the intense weekend in Munich and there was and is a lot to do job-wise.  I am not that often online.

A short comment to the letter of your daughter to your husband: I have read something so beautiful very rarely! Your husband must be a wonderful person! I am actually speechless! He is like a rare diamond in this world, this story is very touching to me. I am also very glad that you write so positively about your husband, because sometimes your comments sounded a little bit different. Yes, I read your posts and your comments, which brings me to another topic I'd like to add right here:

I agree with you that the rating system of Actifit is not entirely fair, perhaps too much emphasis is placed on the post and less on the performance of the sporting activity. I can therefore understand that you no longer like this. I hope that we will still be fitness buddies (as your favorite actifiter, as you wrote) and that you will accompany me a little bit on my way. I would definitely be happy to read too about your sporting activities from time to time. For me Actift is an enrichment, because I am actually quite lazy about sports and I need an incentive. I am very grateful for this, if only because it is good for my health. 
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@linnyplant ·
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>Your husband must be a wonderful person! I am actually speechless! He is like a rare diamond in this world, this story is very touching to me. I am also very glad that you write so positively about your husband, because sometimes your comments sounded a little bit different.

Oh!  I didn’t realize you got the impression I had a problem with my husband.  He’s my best friend, we’re joint at the hip and he’s very aware of my online activities and how I love to make fun of him.  We’re always laughing about it behind the screen.  I adore hubby, he keeps me sane.  I know if I decide to roll up in bed unable to cope, he will adjust my blankets, give me a kiss and hold the fort, letting me rest.  He is a wonderful human, which is why he’s often mentioned.  Even when I pretend to grumble about him.  

We’re a very private couple, we tell each other everything, but it’s always between us.  I don’t ever complain for real to others about my husband.  If I have a problem with him, *he* will hear about it.  I just like to complain when he doesn’t agree with me or thinks I’m a lazy bum.  We laugh about this all the time, how lazy I am and how I get him to do ridiculous things like pick me up in a car 500 meters down the road.  Lol

>I agree with you that the rating system of Actifit is not entirely fair, perhaps too much emphasis is placed on the post and less on the performance of the sporting activity. I can therefore understand that you no longer like this. 


I’m not mad at you at all!  I thought it was the opposite tbh, since you noticed my lack of enthusiasm of actifit.  I’m just not all that interested in the community actifit update post, and find I care less and less as time goes on re actifit. It made no sense to delegate to something I wasn’t excited by.   But I consider you a good friend, Peter.  I might not always comment, but I very much care.
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@peter2017 ·
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Thank you for all the good and caring thoughts. 
I consider you a good friend too. It is always a great pleasure to communicate with you. Do you know what? I gave a name to one of my blooming orchids! Don't miss my actifit-reports the coming days! :-)
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