If a person wants to live in happiness, he must relax his mind and look at the world, and can't haggle, especially don't care about the people around him, otherwise, it is difficult to get happiness in life.Regardless, it is a small matter of life, but it reflects one's mind and feelings.
If you don't care, you won't have narrow mindedness, and your mood will be calm. if you don't care, there will be no tension between your opponents, and the relationship between you and others will be more harmonious. if you don't care, you will be more happy if you get indifferent, lose calm, and be calm.
The undesirable things in life exist at any time and place, for example: for no reason, the leader reprimands you. if you are unable to defend yourself, you are overcrowded in the evaluation of professional title. inexplicably, your neighbor scolds you. you are confused and quarrels with your wife. Do you mean irritating?No matter in work or life, the bad things always follow you like the shadow, which brings you endless troubles.
How to deal with these unpleasant things?Is it to put it in the heart, always torture themselves, or not to haggle with it, a frank smile, let it go with the wind?I think smart people should choose the latter, because care is the beginning of life pain, arguing with people for the difference between more and less, fighting with people for fame and wealth, fighting with people for trivial things. The result of such haggling will only make oneself very tired and unable to find the happiness of life.
Don't care about everything, this is the secret of not tangled.The little monk broke the master's favorite potted orchid, but he said, "I don't want to be angry to plant orchids."Although he liked orchids, he didn't worry about orchids in his heart
But in life, there are very few people who are not entangled.Some people always take money, fame and wealth, power and other material things too seriously. They like to care about everything. They always calculate whether you get more than me or whether I get less than you.The result of such haggling is not only with oneself, but also with others, which not only intensifies the contradiction, but also stiffens the relationship between people and loses the happiness of being a man.
Life is not a simple take and give up, nor simple gain and loss, a lot of times, we like to care too much.For the sake of fame, for profit, for the sake of a moment's anger, he let his body and mind feel tired in vain.In fact, the secret of a happy life is to ignore it.If you don't haggle, it should be yours or yours. if it's not yours, you will lose it if you depend on it.