Third agreement: Do not assume! by lynnmargullys

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Third agreement: Do not assume!
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A very cordial greeting to the members of this community; I am sure that, in spite of the hard moments and blows, we will have the keys and tools to continue building quality information blocks. Sometimes these things just have to happen in order to work as a team and have a common goal and let's hope that this is the case.

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Despite the short time in the community, I have noticed the commitment of many users and for sure this is one of the best strengths. Working as a team, with commitment and professionalism will be vital for everyone. Since last week I have been telling you about the Miguel Ruiz agreements, and today we will detail that third agreement. An agreement we make with whom? The answer is with ourselves! Since we are the directors and managers of our own lives.

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#### Emotional intelligence is key to move in all groups. With this situation that the project is living now is an essential ingredient as well as, assuming consequences or eventualities that possibly never exist or will exist.


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Have you ever wondered how much energy we have spent in establishing networks of facts, situations or opinions that never happened? Surely many, most likely if you are sure of the consequences of these situations, anger, sadness, discomfort and even despair.


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Sometimes we even make hasty decisions recreating eventualities that are only seen from our realities, and how hard it is for us to even recognize it. When we are impeccable in our words and work for our well-being, we are sure that the assumption will not leave us in most of the times, a good taste. 


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#### Many times we imagine what the other person, be it a partner, co-worker, friend or relative is thinking about some eventuality, and we can fall into a mistake. What is the best solution? Ask and dialogue. For a thinking species this should not be something uncomfortable, since emotional maturity will generate better answers and results.


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Rushed responses or quick conclusions, according to the author is unconscious, as the impulse is generated and will be interpreted according to our previous cognitive structures. This causes us to release hormones sometimes of stress and anger that makes us definitely lose health.


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I am not telling you to live in a fantasy world, but our attitude will be fundamental in the management of situations and conflicts. What is the solution? Ask the other person what is happening with respect to what you are feeling? Know how to wait, breathe slowly and try to immerse yourself in the worldview of the person who accompanies you.

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#### Deciding, exploiting and making judgments a priori can bring us consequences, that is why taking a few days to approach the situation will allow us to evaluate it more effectively. Assuming then will bring us problems that could be avoided under a good communication If you can! The goal is to understand that I cannot change others, but I can change the way in which situations affect me. 


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@lupafilotaxia ·
Hi @lynnmargullys

I have not read Miguel Ruiz, but in your lines I understand the depth of his life perspective, these agreements you share with us outline guidelines that we sometimes forget, therefore, in my case I appreciate that you are socializing this type of content in Project.HOPE, I really liked this you express "I am not telling you to live in a fantasy world, but our attitude will be fundamental in the management of situations and conflicts", certainly our way of approaching a given situation will be key to solve any eventuality or difference. Thank you for this publication.  

Best regards, be well.
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@lynnmargullys ·
I invite you to read it my dear colleague, surely there are many things that you already apply. Best regards
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@joseph1956 ·
Many people have the bad habit of anticipating events, of jumping to conclusions about what may happen in situations where the cause of an unexplained mishap is unknown.
excellent points, thank you for sharing
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@lynnmargullys ·
That's Joseph and how much damage we do to ourselves. Sometimes we suffer too much for something that may not even happen and in the end we only lose energy ... thanks for the always timely visit
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