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I am an On Air Personality basically known as OAP, but I like to stick to a Media Influencer because Media has a way of motivating and inspiring people especially when it is audiovisuals. 
Every Tuesday night, I have this not horrible I will call it, because it is what I live for. My passion and dreams, I co-anchor a relationship show on radio with my hostess and it is always a thug of war. We deliberate on heated issues ranging from Love, Sex & Marriage sometimes. 

So, have decided to share my own relationship story with you guys, but how great it would have  been if it is not a poor story. But I hope you find it interesting and hilarious. 
Fasten your seat belt and lets fly high into the cloud and be sure not to get lost in midst of the twisted plots but poor adventurous love story of mine.

Exactly, seven years ago I was still in highschool  known as secondary school level in Nigeria. Due to the fact that my early years in primary & nursery school had really been on a low key, I determined within myself to step up the game. Because we are being categorize as a loser. I wanted more so I decided to go for it. 
I had my first relationship in Senior Secondary 2 (SS2), what a poor me right? I know! 

Although, I'm this jovial and funny guy way back in school then, I guess @ehiboss @williams_owb and @heeyahnuh should be able to vouch on my behalf, but the task to woo a lady was really an herculean task for me because when it comes to that I know I'm shy and timid. 
But there was this particular black Diamond girl I admired a lot when we were still in school, for the sake of anonymity I won't mention her in this epistle. If you ask me what attracted me to her, I still have that in my head, virtually nothing just that she reminds me of my humble beginnings, dreams and my identity that “Black is Beautiful, Black is Bold!”.

Two weeks down the line after I summoned up my courage to tell her what I really feel for her and how I feel about her, I realize that it was a mutual feelings which needed not much paparazzi. I hope you understand me at this point. (smile)
We started talking, which is the most important thing in a relationship, I discovered that we had chemistry not only that, we were able to solve our equations when the need arises. The love was really in the air, you know? Friends and colleagues started gossiping about us. We became the talk of the school and guess what, it was really a hype for me in school back then. 

Long before our chemistry started resulting and giving solution, this is not a lab experiment though lol. I had this another fantasy on another black girl, at this point I know you will say I love Black girls. You're right partially, because I am not a racist, I have a taste for white/light girls too. I trip off whenever I see them, they are bloomy.
So pathetic nothing happened between us because she had to leave my school for another, that was how our friendship became incommunicado.

Much after that I started dating my girlfriend, although ex now. Despite the boost our relationship gave me I was unable to communicate with her at school, I wait till when we get home and I will start pouring my heart to her. I guess I was still a loser anyways.
There was a particular instance I can never forget till I approach my grave. Its happens I came from a very large family where the bulk of the responsibility of the family is saddled by my mother because my daddy is a retiree from government work. So, things were really tight for us then. I attended a missionary school where you are expected to have finished your payment before you resume school, I still had some debts to cleared that term with the school management and I was asked to leave the school premises with immediate effect. 
My girlfriend had to pay for my school fee that day and I refunded her...




I cried that day at school and she was there to comfort... Oh, I wish its didn't end that way Love... 

Watch here for PART 2

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