The whole “Free-Range” thing: CPS must revisit these cases (and policy,) with a lenient attitude. by mepatriot

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The whole “Free-Range” thing: CPS must revisit these cases (and policy,) with a lenient attitude.
Without, admittedly, understanding the parenting philosophy, I wrote an earlier article about the new and growing fad of “free range parenting” where children of (unknown minimum) an age are permitted to pretty much wander wherever they like, unsupervised by adults.  I was overly critical.  While I still have my reservations, especially regarding children being allowed free, unsupervised access to known dangerous inner-city areas, (or tightly–packed public areas where children can be seized by perverts and never seen again) I will side with parents 999 times out of a thousand, if the alternative is to side with so-called “child protective” “services,” (CPS)—a known child predatory agency of the modern nanny state.

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(Image courtesy of imom.com.)

Only in cases where the parent(s) could be proven to be intentionally endangering children would I side with any type of government intervention, and even then, I’d much prefer the police to handle such matters rather than incompetent, overpaid, ill-trained and overbearing “social workers.”  This case (following)  appears to be right on the line, and should probably spark further public discussion of what free-range-parenting limitations government should employ, if any:

https://cbsaustin.com/news/local/mother-charged-after-her-4-year-old-twins-found-wandering-alone

The case is about a woman whose four-year-old twins were found wandering alone in a dangerous part of Austin, TX after four previous quasi-“neglect” cases had already been reviewed with regard to this same parent.  Here is a key excerpt from the link above:

“The distance from the victims’ apartment complex to the place they were picked up from at is approximately 500 feet, police stated.  Authorities compiled past CPS reports involving Scarleth and her children and found four reports to inadequate supervision.  

The reports showed in 2011, Scarleth locked her two daughters (one of them now an adult) out of their apartment while she went to jail to visit her boyfriend.  The second incident was in 2014 when one of the twins was taken to the ER for burns on his legs after a pot with boiled water fell on him while in care of the now 15-year-old sister.  The third one occurred in 2015 when the now 15-year-old sister had to stay home from school for two days to take care of her twin brothers.  And the fourth one happened in October of 2018 when a bystander saw one of the twins was left unattended and nearly walked into a street.”

![](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmcZhXHHuEGhRsqCetmDebR83r7Ud5NSv3kbiY17y9j6SX/image.png)
(Image courtesy of psychologytoday.com.)

That’s quite a pattern.  Even so, none of the above, except the second, is particularly egregious and could be explained as over-active imagination of a jealous neighbor.  What is missing, of course, (And that is another major problem with CPS accepting anonymous calls, and with parents and caregivers not being allowed to know the identity of the accused) is the circumstances of the call.  If it was the same caller in more than one incident, those cases could pretty much be dismissed as “busy bodyism” on the part of the reporter.

The 2011 incident could be excused as a poor decision by a very young parent, and not much more.  Still, at some point, if these were all calls by different reporters, it is time to probably at least sit down with this parent and develop a plan that can keep these children safer, and to determine how the mothering can be improved.

![](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmYutgauRaxwHLR8QxvhEkU3RS1Gp4zE2eRuvmoUmybmCJ/image.png)
(Courtesy of wafb.com.)

There is no specific mention of “free range parenting” in this very recent story, either, so that complicates the defense a bit more.  Still, one set of parents claiming the parenting style, and called on the carpet for identical offenses should face no difference in possible sanctions than another set of parents not claiming the style.

What these types of situations may call for is clear legal guidance, perhaps even legal local ordinances, proscribing unacceptable times and places for “free-range” kids to be found.  For example, I see nothing wrong with the City of Austin (or any other city) insisting that four-year olds not be permitted in certain vice-related areas after dark.  I know that can be a slippery slope, but there ARE bad people in the world who will take children and rape and/or kill them, and certain standards may be needed to make “free range” parenting an acceptable and safe parenting style for everyone involved.

![](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmdRtzyu4kPrFngg4ryVipo9kWkuErYacNHGxAZvLbLW1K/image.png)
(Image courtesy of babble.com.)

Again, though, I see no reason for CPS to be involved in police matters, as these types of potentially dangerous situations most adamantly would be—NOT the purview of people charged with examining cases of actual abuse—something they are notoriously poor at doing.  Leaving the door even slightly cracked for these petty tyrants to drive their truck of “neglect” through is certainly not wise, and would be the detriment of all parents, and to society as a whole.  The standard for CPS proving a case of neglect should be set very high, indeed, and to the point where any reasonable adult would find that CPS has (for once) actually acted responsibly.  

As for this specific case, this mother probably should get out of range of Texas DCFS, ASAP…and she may want to “keep her nose clean” from now on.  Once your children (like her three) are already in the clutches of these dangerous profit-driven bureauRATS is probably not the best time for personal re-assessment of one’s parenting choices.
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@xvickx ·
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CPS are a bunch of ppower-tripping kidnappers; much moreso than they are helpful. It’s a harmful organization that does very little good.
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@mepatriot ·
You won't find any argument here.
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@sunlit7 · (edited)
Well, well, well I do say that is quite a pattern alright.  Just not on the part of CPS or the police but on your cunning ability to take any article containing the words CPS and frame it into some logical conclusion even when there isn't any that CPS is in the wrong.  Now lets see just what is missing here...

>That’s quite a pattern. Even so, none of the above, except the second, is >particularly egregious and could be explained as over-active >imagination of a jealous neighbor. What is missing, of course, (And that is another major problem with CPS accepting anonymous calls, and with >parents and caregivers not being allowed to know the identity of the >accused) is the circumstances of the call. If it was the same caller in >more than one incident, those cases could pretty much be dismissed as >“busy bodyism” on the part of the reporter.

The first incident the now fifteen year old would have been seven, maybe eight years old.  Even if a busy body parent called the police it wasn't up to the busy body neighbor to take care of this woman's children while she trotted off to jail to see her boyfriend.  Maybe none of them even knew where she went for all that's matters or what time she'd arrive back home.  Maybe no neighbor at all was paying attention and the girls went to seek advice or use their phone to call their mother whom being in the vicinity of the jail someplace wouldn't have had her phone on her to answer so they could verify where the mother was and when she'd get back home.  There's no indication she lost custody of the children over this so we can safely assume she was sat down and talked to about developing a plan to keep the children safe.  

The second incidence the fifteen year old should have never been cooking to start with.  She would have been anywhere from nine to eleven years old.  It's even questionable as to whether she should have even been babysitting.  Most states have legal age requirements for babysitting.  Our state it is twelve and maturity  plays a factor.  I remember saying I couldn't wait till my oldest was twelve so he could babysit and I didn't have to pay a sitter and someone quipped kids could babysit at the age of eleven.  I didn't know that since my babysitting years they had relaxed the rule a bit but I also didn't take it upon this person's comment to be accurate either.  I actually called CPS and I asked them what the guidelines were for kids to babysit.  I was told twelve, sometimes they allowed eleven depending upon the maturity of the child involved.  Regardless of age though children that young were not old enough to prepared hot meals and consideration had to be taken into how to handle that they could not cook nor allowed to use sharp instruments to cut up food.  This mother failed miserably to find out the rules and laws and one child suffered the consequences.  Yet again we see that the children were not taken and again she was sat down and advised on the safest course of action for her children.  I am also taking it that a busy body neighbor didn't see the incident happen therefore couldn't have just reported it because they were a busy body.

The third incident more than likely came to light via the school reporting not a busy body neighbor.  The girl more than likely told a teacher why she was absent for two days.  Having to babysit is not a viable excuse to be missing school.  How would a busy body neighbor know the child was home for two days because they had to babysit over being home for being ill.  I admit I am running on an assumption here but my money is on there was more than just one incident of absenteeism and this one just happened to put the frosting on the cake.  Again the children were not removed therefore the mother must have received some much needed guidance.

 

 The last incident involved what they quoted as a bystander...not a neighbor, not a busy body neighbor but a bystander, which also happens to be a far cry from the latest incidence where they stated it was:

>The caller stated that he and a coworker found two children walking in >the parking lot of the business, “an area known for drug and gang >activity,” according to the affidavit.

See?....again, not a neighbor nor a busy body neighbor, not even stated as a single lone bystander but a caller and his co worker.  

>Again, though, I see no reason for CPS to be involved in police matters, >as these types of potentially dangerous situations most adamantly >would be—NOT the purview of people charged with examining cases of >actual abuse—something they are notoriously poor at doing.

Obviously you fail to see the illogical failure of that quote.  "As these potentially dangerous situations most adamantly would be".  Just pick the tiny tot up and hand him back to the parents no questions asked, what could possibly go wrong.   You know what they say, three strikes and your out, I think CPS and the system gave this woman adequate  chances to develop a plan that can keep these children safer, and to determine how the mothering can be improved....and she failed miserably at taking the advice.
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