![](https://d1vof77qrk4l5q.cloudfront.net/img/07e0926fe68d27e694fc2629cbc54807ffb00e01.jpg) 今天公司团建,从上午九点多开始忙活,在办公室吃烤肉,一直吃到下午四点,老板说没事儿就提前下班吧,然后我们就都回家了。回到家后过了没多久,老板给我发信息说要送我一个礼物,我一看,妈呀,这是出什么幺蛾子呢,怎么会无缘无故想送我礼物?细问才知,老板是想感谢我月初的时候我借信用卡给他刷来应急的。 然后我就跟他说:哎呀,这都不算什么事儿,您不用放在心上。但是我们老板执意说要送我礼物,这样就让我觉得我的举手之劳,好像给了别人很大的恩惠一样。我一直推脱说不用,但是老板说:你不知道,当别人在困难的时候能有人伸出手去帮你一把,那种感激的心情是什么样子的。 是的,我确实不怎么能理解。因为我是属于那种委曲求全的人,遇到问题,首先想到的是自己解决,暂时还没遇到很大的困难到那种到绝境需要被帮助的时候,或者有这种时刻已经被我遗忘。所以对于这样的一件小事,我无法去体会老板的那种感激之心。 这种举手之劳的事情我并不想得到什么回报,老板要送礼物的行为让我很有负担,觉得自己占了别人便宜似的。我不想占在他的角度上去理解问题,我只想让自己心里过得去。所以我就告诉他以后少熊我一点就行了。 很多时候去帮助别人真的不想要什么回报,特别是自己看来不算帮忙的帮助,这个时候只要心存感激就好了,千万不要把事情夸大化,让别人不舒服,也让自己不痛快。 我们常常说:滴水之恩当涌泉相报。这是说给受惠者听的,但是施惠者可能不想要你的回报,你只需要在别人需要的时候也愿意伸手帮一把就好了,所以还是尊重彼此的意见吧。 忘记拍些今天烤肉的图片了,今天吃了好多肉,明天再减肥吧。 减肥之路漫漫其修远兮,吾将反复而行之~
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