# After all the bitching, and crying and mewing I hear on Steemit on a daily basis ...

After all the bitching, and crying and mewing I hear on Steemit on a daily basis I wanted to say one thing: **Nobody is responsible for your Steemit situation but you.**

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Many blame whales and wayward dolphins for their unhappiness as vented in the comments section regularly, but no one is responsible for their situation but themselves - there is nothing inherently wrong with the Steemit platform. You always have the choice of how to react to other Steemians. You choose how to measure your overall Steemit experience.

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As a starter minnow I had 2000 posts all sitting at $0.01 and was drinking lots of alcohol, but then my thinking began to shift as I began to understand that lashing out on Steemit served me no purpose. I had to make my own Steemit happiness and tread my own path and not copy other users on the platform. I had to live my own Steemit life as so few really express themselves here on Steemit. 

*I had to join that Steemit happiness club or go into Steemit anger overload! Thankfully 10,000 + posts later I'm still here, so stay strong and you too will find happiness on Steemit.*

**To simply blame others is to denigrate your own Steemit experience. Change within and you'll see your own posts connect better with other Steemians I promise you.**

Best of luck.

@mindhunter

p.s. Now reusing the #nuggetized tag for these shorter articles.