![F939EF35-759D-4308-A98C-8D9B03164CE2.jpeg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmYF93F1YCsuK7wsBZrprUtNsDChq7Wq9dea5nGMzuLrjE/F939EF35-759D-4308-A98C-8D9B03164CE2.jpeg) 一谈到初恋,我们往往会想到“美好、青涩、甜蜜”这些形容词,初恋随着时间的变迁对每个人的意义都是不一样的。 何以见得呢?比如一个人在十几二十岁的时候,一提到初恋,可能他会有些害羞,因为这是内心深处的秘密。 一个三四十岁的人,经历了社会的打磨,“初恋”的存在可能会成为朋友间的玩笑点和洗刷点,然而这个年龄阶段可能不会因此而羞涩。 另外,这个年龄段的人可能会遇到一些事业或家庭上的困惑,这时候他们可能会回忆起过去美好轻松的少年时代、学生时代,而初恋往往就会在此时被想起。 至于中老年人,爱情已经变成回忆,美好的回忆。 既然这是一个畅所欲言的地方(@mrspointm是这样说的),那我也可以谈谈初恋这件事儿。 我的初恋是高中时代,那时候我是纯粹的学渣,喜欢运动,喜欢哗众取宠,略显张扬,谈恋爱自然也是正常的。 那时候刚刚军训结束,第一天追求那个女生,第二天她就答应了,绕过了考验期,直奔所谓的热恋期,那时候称之为眼缘的东西,现在看来就是“草率+闲的没事做”。 总之,我和那个女生就这样在一起度过了高中一半的时光,说不喜欢对方可能谁也不信,那时候的喜欢也很简单,有共同兴趣、不反感对方、颜值还看得过去,满足以上条件基本就算喜欢。 那时候最幼稚的大概就是常把“爱”挂在嘴边,那时候理解的爱情应该就是两个人无忧无虑地玩玩玩,所谓感情无非就是源自依赖和习惯。 而“爱”更多的是包容、理解、支持,那是需要经历时间的考验才能沉淀出来的东西,然而身着校服的我们并不需要承担太多东西。 我没有那种初恋情怀,更看重的是身边的人和事,有了家庭才真正理解有些东西比爱情宝贵多了。
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xiaoshancun | 0 | 26,288,067,254 | 100% | ||
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sunray | 0 | 19,586,274,894 | 21.44% | ||
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myjourney | 0 | 967,781,827 | 21.44% | ||
jianan | 0 | 11,057,160,519 | 21.44% | ||
cn-book | 0 | 692,131,652 | 58% | ||
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cn-movie | 0 | 64,630,029 | 58% | ||
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anxin | 0 | 205,860,175 | 8.13% | ||
angelina6688 | 0 | 13,444,340,438 | 21.44% | ||
vivia | 0 | 2,170,249,765 | 58% | ||
bluewinter | 0 | 480,439,924 | 21.44% | ||
cheva | 0 | 105,539,100,515 | 21.44% | ||
moobear | 0 | 0 | 8.13% | ||
maiyude | 0 | 24,218,896,231 | 9% | ||
xiaoli | 0 | 190,903,600 | 58% | ||
nean | 0 | 0 | 8.13% | ||
wilhb81 | 0 | 3,440,574,295 | 10% | ||
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john371911 | 0 | 58,875,829,188 | 21.44% | ||
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youandme | 0 | 943,857,114 | 100% | ||
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kelvinzhang | 0 | 1,309,180,930 | 21.44% | ||
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yanhan | 0 | 7,412,361,749 | 21.44% | ||
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randomvoter | 0 | 8,615,617,175 | 17% | ||
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casino88 | 0 | 910,206,094 | 21.44% | ||
cn-hello | 0 | 776,368,642 | 21.44% | ||
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moocer | 0 | 0 | 58% | ||
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这初恋的感觉,真的已成追忆。。。
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还有尊重和责任 来自于 [WhereIn Android] (http://www.wherein.io)
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