「生活」话题终结者 by mrspointm

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「生活」话题终结者
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我妈妈从事教师行业几十年了，即将面临退休，尤其是在我生了孩子后我发现我妈的聊天方式越来越让我感到心累：典型的教导者。

某天，我发了一张小朋友的照片给我妈，她回复：要多给小宝贝放音乐、讲故事；

又某天，我发了一个视频给她，她回复：要多和小宝贝交流，她才会更活泼；

还有某天我发了一张比较优秀的学生作业给她看，她回复：要多夸学生，他们才会更努力…

我深知她说的话基本都正确，但我妈总是把我当成什么都不懂的小孩，任何一件事她都很自然地变成老师的口气和态度和我交流。

最重要的是我不知道如何回答她的那些话，有一种你明明是分享式地发给她，她却直接当作汇报，顺便给你提点建议。

难道教师这个职业做久了都会这样吗？因此我联想到我自己，我的确不希望未来的我也像现在的我妈一样，什么事都喜欢以教育的姿态和我女儿交流，我更希望可以使一个话题尽可能地延伸下去。

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@lovequeen · 
我覺得除了她是教師外，又是母親的身份，才會如此吧^^
我娘不是老師，也是常常這樣的~~

來給妳拍手~~
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@mrspointm · 
是的 总是操不完的心

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@hqy · 
再大的儿女，在妈妈眼里也是小孩子。

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@mrspointm · 
同感 现在当了妈妈更深有体会了

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@annepink · 
你可以试着忘记妈妈是教师呀 
试着跟妈妈这么聊天「嗯 妈妈 我是这么做的... 我也跟你一样想法... 咱们想一块去了呢」「我是想和你分享嘛」等等
换作同事好友的聊天对象试下  反正是好意的
长辈可能无法改变习惯 我们晚辈就变通一下心态去想 也许就不心累了

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@mrspointm · 
也许我真的可以换一种方式交流 不然每次都觉得很抵触 真的是话题终结😞

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