「生活」我身边的人慢慢摆脱幼稚 by mrspointm

hive-193186 · @mrspointm · Sep 18 '21

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「生活」我身边的人慢慢摆脱幼稚

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其实题目这句话是一次和朋友的聊天之间记住的，当时让我感触真的非常深。
 
我们最幼稚的时候应该是孩童时期，那时候我们可以因为一包辣条而开心，可以因为每天准点的动画片而兴奋期待一整天。
 
到了少年时期，我们也开始用“幼稚”这两个词，有的女生会对男生的某些行为贴上幼稚的标签，我们也开始讨论谁谁谁这么大了还如此幼稚。
 
男生和女生都希望自己的另一半相对成熟，这样会轻松一点，父母们也希望孩子成熟一点，这样不容易受欺负，企业单位也希望员工成熟一点，这样可以创造更多的利益。
 
直到今天，我才会真正思考，幼稚真的一点都不好吗？
 
那天朋友说，她有这样的感觉是因为以前她的闺蜜听自己吐槽男朋友都会回应“那你们赶紧分”，可是现在会稳重的说一句“我只能给你建议，你自己决定吧”。以前和现在做决定的都是自己，可是现在，再也没有那时候的简单和洒脱了。
 
我们觉得成熟点好，那是家人需要、伴侣需要，但是保持一点幼稚或许可以满足自己的需要。

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@love520 · Sep 18 '21

一般幼稚只对很亲近的人

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@mrspointm · Sep 19 '21

有道理

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@zhangyan-123 · Sep 19 '21

有时候单纯点更好！
!sbop

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@mrspointm · Sep 19 '21

😊

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@celeste413 · Sep 19 '21

保持纯真的心挺好✌️

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@mrspointm · Sep 19 '21

🤭

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@wherein · Sep 21 '21

This post has been rewarded by the Steem Community Curation Project #wherein 

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