"Lost wife and soldiers" is a Chinese idiom allusions, the Eastern Han Dynasty hegemony of the three period, Sun Quan would like to get Jingzhou, Zhou Yu Xian "false accusation detained hostage." Zhuge Liang know this conspiracy, arranged Zhao Yun to go together, first to meet Zhou Yu's father-in-law Qiao Xuan,Sun Quan's sister to marry Liu Bei,(The real history of Sun Quan for political factors will be his sister to marry Liu Bei)
"赔了夫人又折兵" 是中国的一个成语典故，东汉末年三国争霸时期，孙权想取回荆州，周瑜献计“假招亲扣人质”。诸葛亮识破，安排赵云陪伴前往，先拜会周瑜的岳父乔玄，乔玄说动吴国太在甘露寺见面，吴国太真的将孙尚香嫁给刘备。孙权与周瑜被人嘲笑“周郎妙计安天下，赔了夫人又折兵”。（真实历史上是孙权出于政治因素将自己的妹妹嫁给刘备） (from baidu.com)

If you want to know about China's history and immigrate overseas friends, please do not forget to teach kids, Chinese studies, Chinese history, and travel to China，To Xi'an to understand the history of China in 2000, to the Beijing Forbidden City to understand the history of the Qing Dynasty, Nanjing and so on.
了解中国的历史， 移民海外的朋友，请不要忘了教小孩，中国的国学，中国的历史，有机会来回中国旅游，去西安了解2000年的中国历史，去北京故宫了解清代历史，去南京等等.

Here is a TV home recommended，If you do not understand the history of China, from the "Three Kingdoms" start to see the TV Board, maybe you spend a lot of time, but you can learn a lot of Chinese culture, each TV is a story, "Taking Oath in the Peach Garden" , "borrowing arrows with straw men", "Dangerous banquets",  thirty-six meter and more
Two versions are recommended
这里有一部电视居推荐给海外的朋友，如果你不了解中国的历史，就从”三国演义“开始，看这部电视局，要花你很多时间，但你可以学习到许多中国的文化，每一集电视就是一个故事，“桃园结义",“草船借箭”，“刀单赴会"，”火烧连营“，三十六计
两个版本推荐
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UuyOPYXo-AY&list=PLzs78Vw3QIyAm-NQCERmR9YCipjKPFZMJ<br>
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KI9Enonl2hY&list=PLaKuhDBs-faRteubJhqGrsyV_SCHcdacP<br>

"lost wife and loss soldiers",If you can not understand，I have a story, this man, caught a big fish, unfortunately,  the fishing rod is not what is broken, Shoes and mobile phones are lost, Finally, the fish ran.
赔了夫人又折兵这个故事如果你不能理解，我这还有一个故事，看这位帅哥在钓鱼， 钓了一条好大的鱼，可惜，啥不得断线， 最后断了杆， 鱼杆断了还不算什么， 还湿了身，湿了身还不算啥，iphone手机也废了. 鱼没钓上来，最后鞋也丢了.
https://youtu.be/YxTwifcD1qE<br>

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