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<p>More and more women are getting married late. Every New Year's Day, my parents would arrange for a fiancé, as if my daughter couldn't get married when she was 30 years old, that's a big deal.</p>
<p>But women today don't think so.</p>
<p>More and more women are professional, and the standard for male selection was no longer "nearly enough" before. It is important to have the same three views, have a successful career, be talented, and be gentle and caring.</p>
<p>Picking and picking, I picked myself up to my thirties.</p>
<p>Of course, as the standards for selecting men rose, women's standards for themselves began to become very high.</p>
<p>Isn't there a popular saying? Only by making yourself good enough can you meet that good person.</p>
<p><strong>So many women focus on their careers at the right young age.</strong></p>
<p>Of course, there is also a reason to shy away from setting up a fiancée at home: busy at work.</p>
<p>Maybe that's the reason, but it gets really busy.</p>
<p>Her career prospects were good, and her position was improving step by step, but she became the remaining unmarried woman.</p>
<p>Of course, there are countless examples of conflicts between career and love, and they all cover all aspects.</p>
<p>There are people who do not want to sacrifice their career for love, and there are those who set aside the prime time to fight, and there are those who are determined to rely on themselves and find men unreliable.</p>
<p><strong>This makes us think, is there a contradiction between a woman's career and love?</strong></p>
<p>I have to admit that women's burdens are heavy, and they have to face far more prosperous careers than men.</p>
<p>Once a woman is married, she has to consider the problems of taking care of a family and having children, and she cannot devote herself completely to the workplace. Even if it was a job he loved no matter how much he loved, he had to make sacrifices for the family.</p>
<p>Therefore, the best time for a woman to work hard for a career is when she was single before marriage.</p>
<p>That's why many people are so busy with work that they don't have time to fall in love.</p>
<p><strong>However, career and women's love are not contradictory.</strong></p>
<p>For women, you can choose to work hard for your career, if the love you find suits you, you don't really need to spend too much energy maintaining it.</p>
<p>After a busy week at work, you say that you don't want to go out on the weekend, but just want to sit on the couch, and you don't have time for a date.</p>
<p>But I never thought that two people lying on the couch together to watch a TV series or read a book would also be some kind of date.</p>
<p>Women who feel that career and love are contradictory think about the time-consuming side of love, but forget that love is one more person who cares and takes care of you.</p>
<p>So ladies, don't dedicate your best years to your career. Try to find a suitable and comfortable love, and learn to enjoy love.</p>
<p><strong>No matter how busy you are at work, you can take the time to fall in love. Don't be in your own heart, you will close the door to love.</strong></p>