Being a child we experienced being scolded by our parents or someone older than us.  We were being scolded because we did something wrong. 
 
They explained to us the reason  that why were been scolded because they love us and they want us to understand that what we were wrong. 

When we grew up we learned many things and sometimes we still being scolded by someone with authority or still older than us. 

Now,  what are the differences being  scolded when were a child and now that we were an adult? 
 
When we were a child we accept that we are wrong or commit mistakes and most of the time we accept it and we never do it again. 


Now that we are adult sometimes we don't accept reasons why we are been scolded cause we have reasons too. Our own reasons that we think we are correct and not them. 

But to think of it why we are being scolded if both of you are correct? 

If we think only of our self being right then we will never have progress. We must accept their reason and analyze the situation.  We need to put ourselves on their shoes.  

If our mind our closed for other people suggestions,  comments and opinions we can't improve ourselves.  Sometimes we need to put down our ego and pride to reach other people. 

There's nothing wrong in accepting those. 

As a child we do not have pride and ego but then us we grew up as we learned we also build our ego and pride. 

Stay humble let's always put our feet on the ground.  Having age and authority doesn't mean that we don't need others already. 

Remember that life is a continuous process of learning. 

Life is to short to live with anger and pride. Let's enjoy this short journey of us. It's better lots of friends than enemies. 

Thank you all and God bless. 

Everyday we learn a lesson from ourselves and others. 

Share it to everyone. 


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