I'm not so convinced and I do not like sex
I refuse such a thing

Nice writing @nomad-magus

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If you count your life as how many time you take breath  then your married life will be counted how many time you do sex with your partner.

They can sex but Sex without love may not be enjoyable.

I so love the answer you gave to this young lady. The real question shouldnt be weather it is wrong to have sex with someone she isn't sure about but what she is actually doing with such a person. Many people these days watse their precious time in the name of relationship and they dwell in the wrong relationships . Sex isn't a bad thing but it should be done right else it goes wrong. Nobody wants to be played or toyed with and that's why we should be very careful with whom we chose to give it all to.

You response is all she needs. I think  you did justice to it.

sex is not all thing at all
its need to a great love for a great relation
love is great!!

I do not know exactly what to say about this article, I think you should do the right thing for both of you

You have put it all nicely. To me, I think she's overthinking things. I'm not going to say all is going to be well. There are two options for you to take. If you think there's something really wrong (I mean something that you think wont keep you two together but don't expect perfection), then walk out of the relationship but if you think you are ready to take the step then do so and be prepared for whatever comes out of it. 

If you are always afraid to make mistake in life, you might not even make anything at the end of the day. So, go out there with an open mind and give your relationship a chance. You might never know if he's your true love except you find out. And if at the end of the day things don't walk out well, don't cry, just move on, it's called life and is loaded with risk.

sex is not all thing at all
its need to a great love for a great relation
love is great!!Many people these days watse their precious time in the name of relationship and they dwell in the wrong relationships . Sex isn't a bad thing but it should be done right else it goes wrong. Nobody wants to be played or toyed with and that's why we should be very careful with whom we chose to give it all to.

We should sex with the person who lives with us for life because Sex is the method of raising children.We should obey the sex.

hellow
dear @nomad-magus sir
i mean
its another great insperation post
i all time agreed with true love
only love can not  give a great relation ,
but sex with love give a great relation  to each other no dout,

Women are insatiable. We are greedy. Our appetites do need to be controlled if things are to stay in place. If the world were ours too, if we believed we could get away with it, we would ask for more love, more sex, more money, more commitment to children, more food, more care. These sexual, emotional, and physical demands would begin to extend to social demands: payment for care of the elderly, parental leave, childcare etc. The force of female desire would be so great that society would truly have to reckon with what women want, in bed and in the world.”

Beautiful words for Catherine and talking about sex, I feel that many of the problems in erotic relationships are based on standards driven by what companies tell us and we reaffirm society, which I mean by this that today has given too much importance to sex and less importance to create strong bonds based on communication, respect and understanding.

A tip for Catherine, live your moment, enjoy, believe, do everything that makes you feel comfortable and do not let them pressure you, it is your body, it is your sexuality and you have the right to enjoy it.

@nomad-magus
oh sir its great advice for a great relationship
love is really need to make a happy life,
but sex can not do for this at all
so i all time appreciate love
not sex
thanks for your informative post,
its better love for better life ,,and can get a succesfull of happiness

>>...humans are notorious for over thinking situations. 

I agree. Keep things and feelings as simple as possible. It’s much easier this way. Overthinking leads to mistakes. Even though I would rather make a mistake and learn from it, than not making any. We are just a humans and your advise to her to go for it maybe a mistake as well, but if she doesn’t try, she wouldn’t find out. I would tell her “what are you waiting for? Go for it” as well.

The exact amount of love that sexual love does not express is that I think this love is publicly by God.
I think each person expresses the pain and sincerity of each other through love. I think sexual love is the most loved of God, because of love, because of the real love of love, and a sincere expression of love. I think this love is the first.

God should show our respect for love because love for God is the real love.

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A kindergarten boy was draw an image og God. He drew an eye. When asked why, he explained that God is an all seeing eye. God is seeing all that go on on the earth. What h decides to with all that he sees is up to him.
Catherine, your body should be an exclusive reserve for only one man who truely loves you. It is called fidelity. Stay safe.

My opinion is that she's overthinking it.

Sex is a beautiful thing and it makes people happier.

I believe that if everyone had sex, world would be a much happier place.

For me personally, it doesn't need to be with someone you love.

But, I still am against people who have different sex partners every week or so.

You're risking getting infected and it's just not healthy.

I really don't know why this girl is so undecisive about this, as he is her boyfriend...

I believe she'll be glad after she has sex.

A person can never attain perfection through sexual relation, because sexual relation is not everything. All relations are at the root. There is a delightful and smooth content that is to be taken from one's own mind. This smooth love reveals the union of the two minds.

I agree with each of your words because the things you talked about are completely correct and full dignity.

Time changes with life
   Life changes with relation, Relationships do not change but the relatives
With only time, Aponjon changes with time

My point is, relationships are best secured on the basis of emotional bonding and not on the basis of physical bonding.
Good relationships are based on THREE;
TRUST
HONESTY
RESPECT
EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION
EQUALITY
One of the best signs of a relationship is that your partner wants the best for you. There are a lot of teenagers and even youths who are keeping themselves for marriage and are in happy healthy relationships.

My spontaneous limerick to your article:

If you think sex is a sinful act,
Your mind is out of tact,
for it is essentially within you,
what you deem to be true,
so don't let your thoughts make you whacked.

Hopefully your reply helps her ;)

Asides from that, the truth is, some people are somewhat clueless to what the depth of a relationship means, and think having frequent sex is the only way they can keep the connection and keep the fire burning. Is this really true?
I’ve also observed that the reason most people indulge in sex in their relationships is because;
They have trust issues so they constantly arouse or seduce their partner, emotionally trying to keep (tie) their partner to themselves and themselves alone.
They don’t know any other way to bond or interest their partner. They know nothing asides from sex to keep their relationship moving.
They think sex is a re-assurance that their partner still loves them the same way they did before or even at all.
They assume their partner is just interested in sex, think their partner loves them because of the sex, think their partners won’t leave them because of the sex.
They have low self esteem and have sex to keep to feel appreciated and keep their emotions in check.
Some of my friends think sex is love, but I say they are two different things. I mean, a man can have sex with a woman he has no feelings for, likewise a woman. Sex doesn’t necessarily involve emotions, and when done in this scenario stated above, it’s to simply attain pleasure.

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I think for what it is not to have sex with the people we love. whereas people say. True love is not the same as lust. true love is full of feelings. I think that's not a good way out. if we can still do with a partner for what we have sex with others.

i think if she will do it now,it will always come to haunt her later when she will find her true love.It is not about wrong it is about inner peace.For a temporary happiness you are sacrificing your permanent peace as you never forget these experiences easily ,so it is better to enjoy this special experience with the one who deserves both your body and soul

bdw you made all things clear to her already

relationship is life fast in sex love 
sex is very inporten

Unloved sex is like a non-salt cooking. Feeling bland do not know what will be desired. whether inner satisfaction or momentary pleasure. The way you give understanding to Catherin is very touching to contemplate TrueLove's truth.

The relation between love and sex is totally based on somoneone's personality,priorities, ethics etc.If I talk about myself,for me the most important thing is the emotional bond!then only I can think of moving ahead further with the person(no matter how hot/beautiful the other one is).I'm the kind of person who values emotions first and more then anything even our physical needs you can call it my ethics or whatever but that's how things are with me.I can't even think of getting laid with someone without being in true love with her

If you believe you'll feel guilty for doing this, just wait a little bit more for the right moment. There's no rush. But if this will be a pleasant memory that will make you smile later on in life, go on.

The main thing a man wants after marrying his idol is having sex.
For men, sex is a first need that should be given to his wife after marriage.

everybody must have love, and true love comes from the conscience, which when he comes nobody can get in the way, so too, when he wants to leave, forgive me if my comments are wrong, but I am interested in your article, continued success of the boss

true love cannot be the measurement to have sex :)

It is very interesting that you discuss the discussion about this question from Catherine. The solution you describe is very fascinating to anyone who reads it.

Really nice article
There is only one happiness in this life, to love and be loved.
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