You can never prove your love to those who doubt it! by nomad-magus

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· @nomad-magus ·
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You can never prove your love to those who doubt it!
**That ancient Indian proverb has proven itself to be true numerous times in my life. Spouses, friends, relatives – no matter who the person who interacts with me was, there always came a point in our relationship when I felt them to ask in their hearts – *"does he love me?*"**


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Each time I reassured them that I do because one of the elements of love is confidence. I do not want anyone who is dear and close to me to doubt my love. When people feel loved they can grow and flourish to be all who they are. Like a flower, they open and grow beautiful petals, colorful and rich with scents. And by doing so they enrich their environment and make my own life more pleasant. So you see, my reasons to express my love for other people are quite selfish.

But what is so tragic about living such life is the fact that most humans have a serious problem to believe that someone loves them. I tell them that I really don't judge them, and they nod and hum but later I feel how they avoid telling me things for fear that I would think badly of them. I tell them that I really love them, from my heart, and they smile and say *"yes, I know"*, and later they look for new manipulative ways to make me prove that love.

At first, I allowed them to feed off me. Each time they asked for proofs I found new ways to show them how deep was my love. I never got tired of doing that and I hoped that one day they would really feel their own source of love and ceased to doubt mine.

### And then I realized – I am only doing them harm by abiding with those requests. I will never be able to prove my love to someone who has not found it yet from within.

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And you know, it's quite easy to recognize those who have. People who are connected to their essence, LOVE to express that love all around. They will rarely ask *"do you love me?"*, they will rarely manipulate you to show your love.  They will actually not care at all if you do. All they would want are opportunities to **express** their love to the world. Does this make sense to you? It's real!

And when they find a counterpart, someone whose heart is sovereign as well, a mature relationship is created.

##### Blessed is the human who does not need the love of others but can simply rejoice in their own.


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@banzzara ·
There is no need to prove if you really love them...

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@nomad-magus ·
Unfortunately it's not like that. As I'm writing in the post.
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@banzzara ·
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I think what you are actually talking about is relationship, that need trust, faith or confidence you are talking about but true love is unconditional.....it does not demand anything.

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@kimberlylane ·
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*All they would want are opportunities to express their love to the world. Does this make sense to you? It's real!*

YES, it does make sense :)

*And when they find a counterpart, someone whose heart is sovereign as well, a mature relationship is created.*

Again, thank you for your inspiring words!  And, the great Bee Gee's song too :)
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@nomad-magus ·
Best music created in the 70s 😊
Thanks 🙏
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@crypto.piotr ·
Dear @nomad-magus

I received your memo a moment ago:

> Hi mate. Got your message. I'll be happy to share my POV on things I regularly write and know of . Blockchain, unfortunately, is not one of them 🙂

Thank you for letting me know. I will do my best to keep it in mind. Anyway your content seem to be very interesting and it's clear that topics related to psychology are your thing.

Back to your post.  Exchellent choice of topic.

> there always came a point in our relationship when I felt them to ask in their hearts – "does he love me?"

Very true. Indeed I asked this question myself number of times as well. Some of us are blessed with partners who do know how to show love and appreciation.

Some are in relationships with those who do not have that skill (usually raised in harsh environment without love coming down from their parents).

I had several serious calm conversations with my own partner on that topic as I believe that building awarness is the key.

> Each time I reassured them that I do because one of the elements of love is confidence

Very wise words.

> Each time they asked for proofs I found new ways to show them how deep was my love. 

That must be very exchausting. Luckily myself I do not face that kind of challenge. Man you have my full respect if you never got tired of it.

ps.
I really enjoyed your publication and I will share it with few friends of mine (hope you do engage back with people who bother to drop some comments :)

Cheers,
Piotr
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@juanmolina ·
>Blessed is the human who does not need the love of others but can simply rejoice in their own.

I do not think there is such a human being.
Simply by nature and instinct.

As for the way you describe the facts, it seems to me that you have had enough personal experiences. This has allowed you to know several criteria and so you have been able to study the behavior of your close people.

> And by doing so they enrich their environment and make my own life more pleasant.

If we were all selfish like you we could live in a colorful world full of relaxing perfumes.

Thank you for these beautiful reflections, dear friend @nomad-magus
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@nomad-magus ·
>If we were all selfish like you we could live in a colorful world full of relaxing perfumes.

It reminds me the quote "Love your neighbor as yourself", and it's reversed interpretation: "if man would only love themselves as they love their neighbor". We often forget to do that. 

Thanks, mate.
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@juanmolina ·
You are full of knowledge.
Thanks to you, friend.
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@jadams2k18 ·
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I came to your post through my very appreciated friend @crypto.piotr.

The problem from my point of view is that there are only two emotions that drive the human being: love or fear (in all their nuances). And unfortunately "the love" we offer (most common human beings like me) is always expectative. That is, we always expect something in return, even when we say "I love you", we hope that our counterpart also responds the same, because otherwise we are not complemented.

Maybe the whole problem comes from the way we learn to perceive love. "*Behave (Be good) because otherwise, mom (dad) is not going to love you*" (Does this sound familiar to you?).  

And as usual, we learn through blows. (Does this sound familiar to you, too?)

In a matter of love, we can read/write books and books and even then we can barely understand it.

And much less expect others to understand it in the way we understand it.

*Just keep spreading love, man!* https://i.imgur.com/G4rHB7r.png https://i.imgur.com/LQziO6Z.png
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@nomad-magus ·
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>In a matter of love, we can read/write books and books and even then we can barely understand it.

... And love/fear are not to be understood but experienced. Perhaps here lies another chuck of the problem, our need to understand and process through our limited mind. It's indeed very true that I write in order to Beckon a potential for a different kind of love, while it must be experienced first hand. Reading is not enough. But it's a good start, because I do write between the lines as well. And you, whether aware of it or not, recieve the intrinsic message that is woven there.

I Appreciate your comment, mate 👍
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@nomad-magus ·
If relevant for you please consider answering my survey about online dating
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