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Everyone around the world seems to be paying more attention when it comes to women abuse.
But laugh off when a man complian about being abuse by a woman.
Women aren't the only victims of domestic violence.
We know the majority of domestic violence victims are women,but what we don't know is that abuse of men happens far more often than you'd probably expect.
I agree with the fact that men are physically stronger than woman but that doesn't necessarily make it easier to escape the violence.
Men faces abuse from the police,major legal obstacles,especially when it comes to gaining custody of his children from an abusive mother..
Figures suggest that as many as one in three victims of domestic violence are male.
WHY MEN CANT COME TO SAY THEY ARE BEING ABUSE BY WOMAN
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Men are often reluctant to report abuse by women because they feel embarrassed,or fear they wont be believed or that police will assume that since they're male they are the perpetrator of the violence and not the victim.
HOW WOMEN ABUSE MEN
an abusive wife or partner hit,kick,bite,punch,spit,throw things,or destroy the mans possessions.
Woman abuse men verbally,
They humiliate men in front of friends,colleagues of family,or on social media sites,
They act possessive,jealous,harass the man with accusations of being unfaithful
Threaten to leave the man and prevent him from seeing his kids if he report the abuse.
HOW WOMEN ABUSE MEN EMOTIONALLY
As a lady i know how emotionally we abuse men at times.
I've seen,heard it,most times when a man tries to speak,he is cut off by his girlfriend
She mocks him when he tells a story that might make him look good,and finishes his jokes for him.
She yell about something unrelated to anything that has happened in the last three hours.
She blackmail him emotionally,
Rejects him,
Withholding affection and sex,
Isolating him.
REASON WHY MEN CANT COME OUT TO SAY THEY ARE BEING ABUSE BY WOMAN
Men are often reluctant to report abuse by women because they feel embarrassed,or fear they wont be believed or that police will assume that since they're male they are the perpetrator of the violence and not the victim.
like the other day i was walking on the street and i saw a lady beating up a man over n over again maybe because she was more stronger than him or he was just trying to be a gentle man that he is,so he couldn't touch her.
But to my greatest surprise,instead of people around stopping her they were busy hitting the guy too,some slapped him,some gave him a knock on the head just because he is a man,but meanwhile he was the one being abused.
The thing is we seem to focus only on women being abuse and forgot to see that men are also victims of domestic abuse...
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