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<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1.2em !important;text-align: center"><strong>别指望拥有一个能解救你人生的完美伴侣</strong></p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1.2em !important">小仙儿接了一个金婚的客户，客户<strong>陈书坤</strong>（魏宗万 饰）为了弥补当年没给妻子<strong>张玉兰</strong>（曹翠芬 饰）办一场婚礼，想让她一满穿婚纱的愿望。陈老师清楚张老师的身材尺寸，婚纱的事都是他忙前忙后地在张罗。这一对老夫妻，实在是羡煞了黄小仙。</p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1.2em !important">这天小仙儿去给张老师看修改好的婚纱尺寸，躺在床上的张老师说了老伴当年一件上不了台面的事。当时在医院待产的张老师发现这档子事儿以后，应对方式俨然就是过去大房对待侧室的态度。</p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1.2em !important">她并没有朝着老公大吵大闹，也没有去婆家或者娘家苦恼撒泼，更没有寻死觅活。她找到小三借着问候的名头骂人不带脏字儿地狠狠敲打了一番，接着回去就和老公摊牌，然后一家人和和美美地生活到现在。</p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1.2em !important">我们看过很多模范情侣/夫妻，每每见着都会感叹“又相信爱情了”，背后默认他们从始自终都是这样和美幸福。我很喜欢范玮琪的<strong>「爱情没有捷径，只有经营」</strong>这句歌词，真正好的爱情并非都是成天爱来爱去，而是经历了欺骗、争吵、背叛、算计、诱惑之后还能通过沟通和包容继续走下去。</p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1.2em !important"><strong>「像买台冰箱，保修期三年。你嫁了个人，还能要求他一辈子不出问题啊，出了问题就修嘛」</strong></p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1.2em !important">张老师聊聊数语，却每个字都是过来人的经历和智慧。如今的女性再不能是那种结了婚以后就如同签下长期饭票的心态了，而是必须成长成一个无论是人格还是经济独立的个体。在这样的心态下以平等为前提去面对爱人女性才会觉得更加的坦然。</p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1.2em !important">当两人的关系出现状况的时候，带着脑子的沟通是必要的。这里的沟通指的是彼此冷静下来阐述自己的诉求，而不是单纯的情绪宣泄，然后剩下的就是你内心做的权衡。</p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1.2em !important">如果你觉得这事儿在现有条件下能翻篇，那就坦然度过这个坎并且从此以后再不翻旧账；如果在内心始终觉得膈应，那就干脆的说再见并且今后再不后悔。我上面说的独立，就是让大家在做这个选择的时候不会被经济因素所裹挟。</p>
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