Again heavy topic, a post on which I have long wanted to write, but could not gather my thoughts.

The post is about mothers who decided to leave their children, their children, knowing about all their health problems and what awaits them. Kids with cerebral palsy, hydrocephalus and not only those kids who are unlikely to be like everyone else ever.

I know such mothers personally and I can confidently say that they are real, the best moms in the world. The most difficult for them was the early years: the complete apathy of doctors, the attitude to such children of others and even loved ones, condemnation, and even rebuke

Why the condemnation? Because 90% of people in Russia believe that such children are born only in the families of alcoholics, drug addicts and prostitutes. Like, if I wasn't drinking or Smoking...Here wasn't drinking or Smoking, and the child was born not such as all. Here and medical errors, and difficult childbirth, and genetics...

Worth just to go for a walk, mentally, not physically. Oblique views, close attention of passers-by, sympathetic views and stupid advice like: "maybe it would be better to pass?"...Who needs better, child or mothers, or both.

My moms are very persistent, courageous, they essentially sacrificed themselves, their lives. Their kids probably won't even live to be 20 years old, knowing this, they try to give them everything to make their every day the happiest.

I respect them, I am proud that I know them and communicate with them. Honestly, I don't know what I would do if I were them, probably even though it's hard. To leave your child, to forget, to give as a thing, is not normal.

Yes, there are children seriously ill and they are very difficult. They do not understand what is happening around, never remember and do not perceive the information. Then I would understand more if they have issued to residents and visiting possible. Anything happens in life and then many have to choose between the future of their healthy children and that such a child. Alas, everything in our lives is not free, not every father will be able to pull one long financial family.

Men, by the way, almost all break and leave families. It is more difficult for them to accept such and to love the special child, it is a shame to them before society, they are weaker than women. Well, if moving aside, they help at least financially. At least, because morally withstand all this is much harder...
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