Actually , I stopped myself from wandering off of the topic before I really did it.  But I was about to go off into the discussion of what happens to the people who do redeem themselves in some way, but they will never be seen that way in the eyes of all the people they damaged along the way.  How can you really be redeemed, if no one wants to redeem you?   Maybe I might need to look up the actual definition of redeem.    Anyway.  Hope you are well, and having good luck with all the house stuff. : )   Hugs! ♥