Grief never ends but it changes as time passed by... by priyanarc

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Grief never ends but it changes as time passed by...
### "Grief never ends but it changes because we learn to heal after the loss..."

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If you dig into your memory lane, you will see a certain type of pain that you have kept locked inside. The reason is very simple, either you healed as time passed by or you just don't want to remember it. People think we forget our grief as time passed by but I believe we never forget our grief, we just learn how to heal and cope up with the grief. We just don't want to remember that but our pain always stays in our heart and we just decided to live with that and move on.

It's not easy to live or cope up with grief, it's a challenge and every individual has their own perspective of experiencing their grief, some are dealing with the death of their loved ones, some are dealing with the broken relationships or some are blaming themselves because of career failure.**Whatever the reason is, grief is an emotional feeling which creates a barrier and disrupts the continuity of life.**

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As I have mentioned above that one had to go through a lot with this emotion when it comes to accepting reality. Yes, that reality which seems hard to accept and challenging like riding rollercoaster when an individual goes through certain types of emotions. For example, Death of your loved one, it's not easy to cope up and accept the reality but he learns to heal and move on because of time. 

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[![cemetery196330_1920.jpg](https://files.peakd.com/file/peakd-hive/priyanarc/3hB9tirn-cemetery-196330_1920.jpg)](https://pixabay.com/it/photos/cimitero-autunno-caduta-colori-196330/)

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## Healing after loss :

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Many of you might know that I have lost my mother 10 years back, at a very young age. When I needed my mother for my upcoming life, unfortunately, she left the world and choose to stay in another world from where no one comes back. Many people showed me sympathy and I never wanted that. No, I don't need people's sympathy because I believe the person who loses his loved once, the pain of losing someone only they can feel, nobody else. It's grief which causes pain every single minute and you just want to scream silently that's all...

One thing I can assure you that grief is a natural response and it can occur during any life transition with anyone and bring changes. Any pain of loss, a transition of life, old and major grief deserves to be grieved and it's important to let your emotions out. Emotions should be felt, expressed, and accepted otherwise it will be stuck in mind and will cause pain every day. 

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[![candle1974673_1920.jpg](https://files.peakd.com/file/peakd-hive/priyanarc/5Q8w0p54-candle-1974673_1920.jpg)](https://pixabay.com/it/photos/candela-luce-buio-dolore-1974673/)

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One of my biggest mistakes was I kept my pain inside and never try to heal. I decided to keep my pain inside and live with it and as a result, I have spent many years with pain, sorrow, and never healed. Somehow I felt, I am still stuck on that period and never decided to come back. Yes, I am living in a present but a part of me still living in the past, dealing with the pain. 

I wish I would have acknowledged my grief and give myself some time to heal instead of burning inside. I made my soul emotionless, like a still life, like a stone. I faced the transition, it was a huge change in my life, it was just like a storm that was not invited but suddenly came and destroyed everything. 

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One thing I did right to myself. I was ready to accept the changes as time passed by. After a certain period of time, I started dealing with my pain and as I have mentioned I decided to live with it. I can't change my past but all I can do is change it into good grief and accept the reality. I am a human and my pain of grief is difficult to accept, I feel overwhelmed sometimes, I feel bad. It's a fine line that stays with human life and also can be manageable. Options are either move on, heal, or stay with the pain. The choice is ours because it is interwoven with the fabric of our life...


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I don't mind leaving a part of me to stay in the past, I just don't want to hamper my present by calling that part again in my present. It is just my choice or I might say part of my healing process or medication. Somehow the core of my heart turned into stone...

**This is my way of dealing with the transition of life... That's all...** 

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> *“You will lose someone you can’t live without,and your heart will be badly broken, and the bad news is that you never completely get over the loss of your beloved. But this is also the good news. They live forever in your broken heart that doesn’t seal back up. And you come through. It’s like having a broken leg that never heals perfectly—that still hurts when the weather gets cold, but you learn to dance with the limp.”*
― ***Anne Lamott***

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This is it for today, see you on my next post...

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***Original post written by @priyanarc***

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