When you have to walk alone... by rem-steem

hive-148441 · @rem-steem · Mar 19 '20

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When you have to walk alone...

**We all have faced this at some point in our life when we have to decide to walk alone!**

Walking alone comes with many responsibilities. You may find the majority is denying to help you or your beloved ones or the one who you believe is not supporting you. But it's okay. Have the belief that you can make everything right.


*You can take the current example from Steem, how the devs decided to make something new. They took the decision that's why we are gonna experience something new and even better. Yeah, I know I'm too optimistic. But I find this way is the most helpful one for every time.*



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*My own capture*


My life was more or less very smooth. I didn't have to think or worried about my financial situation or my living. But at some points in my life, I find it hard to go with the flow. I have shared it many times before that after my Son's birth I had to leave my job. It's just not about taking care of him, it actually much more than that. Because I could choose other options to give him care but I had to choose me. 

> Skipping my career was not easy, especially when it was my first priority. But my husband made that journey easy for me. Otherwise, no one, literally no one, not even my parents were supporting me. And, social judgment. Yeah, they are still going the same trying to make me believe I'm good for nothing, I'm worthless as I don't earn anything. 


Walking alone is never easy. But standing strong is our choice. If we can choose to do that we already conquer half of the battle. I have seen many in my position losing their battel. The battle with the society, with their loved one, with their offspring and most importantly with themselves. That's why I always try to spread this message. 

> We have to stay strong, believe in what we are doing, setting real logic why we choose to do so, mapping our plan for the future and the upcoming outcome.

People will always be there to judge us, to make us feel bad, to ruin our plan. But we are the ones who can choose to stay strong and plan for our life. 

**Life is never easy, not mine nor yours. But we should have the guts and plans to fight our best and make it as we want. What do you think?**


THANKS FOR YOUR LOVE AND SUPPORT!


# Much Love

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<center>**Who I am?**</center>*I'm a proud & happy 'stay home Mom of a toddler son. I'm totally happy with my life, with what I have and really thankful for everything. I gathered some experience working with HR in a multinational organization. Also, I had my University degree in Public Administration. But besides, most importantly, I'm a life & nature enthusiasts, I love to learn human psychology, I'm trying to live mindfully and sure, I'm a 'positive learner'.*



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