If you sit near your neck, take a breath, take a breath. This must not be a very comforting thing for you. This behavior of the boss is not only uncomfortable but also proves to you that he does not believe in you or can not trust you. Working with such a nasty boss is really a wake up to nightmare.

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Working under such a boss, from the moment you enter the office, you feel that everything in your office is controlled by others. They will know all the details of your daily work. The only method of their choice is to do any work. They look for progress on your work several times a day. They remind you of what they want from you at the end of the day, even if you are quite aware of your responsibility.

# Does your boss want to control everything? Probably not everywhere.

At first you have to understand that they want to control everything, because of their lack of trust or anxiety. This control does not mean that your work is not good. Consider yourself sitting in one place. You have to understand that they have a lot of responsibility. You may think only about your own control, but they think that with a huge team. Many people work under them. So unrestrained work could bring disorder. So by any means they want to keep control over the entire office. In this case, since you do all the work properly and without the control, you may feel unworthy of their control effort.

# If you do not change the situation, your progress may be interrupted

As your boss creates a controlled environment, you also create an environment of seductiveness and distraction that unintentionally interferes with your normal behavior. Thereby preventing the progress of your work and position.

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There is no room for you to work or think creatively. All your steps in the office are very carefully controlled by someone else, all your work is already planned, you can not proceed professionally by making a new effort.

Yes, the environment is really very annoying! But you can work from under their control. You have to accept all the controls. They're not controlling your life, doing career. So accept the need for work or bring some changes that boost your confidence in the boss and he is easier for you.

# How to advance yourself from your boss-controlled leadership

**Job predictions before**

If you update your routine work, you will soon become familiar with the work done by the boss, which will improve your relationship with him. So do their specific tasks every day before their guidance comes.

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For example: Notify your recent project or work progress before asking the boss. It will release Bose from unnecessary anxiety, which will prevent the tendency to rotate on your face for a variety of reasons. You can easily get away from the boss' inquiries. If you regularly do so, the boss will not find any other opportunity to give you more time to work yourself ten times a day.

Build yourself as a helper to yourself
Your boss must take a lot of work pressure on the head. If their behavior is very difficult to understand, try it over time with their thoughts, feelings, and what kind of pressure they can understand.

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Prove to your behavior their anxiety, stress, anxiety and you are working day to day to reduce their work, working.

# Make them believe in yourself

Explain your work and talk to the boss, their employees are doing very well. Productivity increased in the past, the pace of work has come. In a word, such a bastard bosses, think that they are all right, to establish them. The work that will be more rewarding for you is to explain them all that you are working closely by observing all the details.

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Ask them to do something that you can do without the intervention of others. If you really can do that, they will understand that you do not always have to keep a special observation. Their feeling will give you more work-related freedom and freedom.

# What is your responsibility?

Simply keep bouncing with the boss to stop harassing yourself and make sure to list your daily work. Such as writing progress reports, creating files, helping other employees, and looking after everything right. Please put it on time before making these tasks entrusted to you. Then the unnecessary control of the boss will reduce a little bit.

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