一句经典的广告词 >不能让孩子输在起跑线上， 不知道谋杀了多少童真，粉碎掉多少焦虑父母们的钞票。  图源：[pexels](https://images.pexels.com/photos/332835/pexels-photo-332835.jpeg?cs=srgb&dl=pexels-332835.jpg&fm=jpg) 父母总想把最好的给孩子，他们喜欢横向比较，看到有比自己孩子优秀的，就特别焦虑，总想超过他们，于是，各种补习拍得满满当当，语数外自不必说，围棋象棋跳棋国标街舞芭蕾书法古筝琵琶钢琴恨不得所有的都上一遍，如果门门都优秀那就是获得了巨大的成功。 可是，提前教育确实能让孩子赢在起跑线上，但也仅仅是起跑线上。有研究表明，提前教育能让孩子在两到三年之内还保持领先，三年过后基本上就泯然众人，后劲不足了。 而且，父母的选择很容易激起孩子的逆反心理，这样一来学习事倍功半，一旦他们能自作主张的时候，一定会拒绝继续原来的学习。 只有兴趣是最好的老师。孩子如果对某项技能感兴趣，那么你不用逼他他都能坚持下去。 强迫确实能出大师，比如郎朗就是从小被逼出来的。但更多的孩子是被逼的永远对钢琴失去了兴趣，成年后这辈子不会再去摸它。 乐器学习并不是要让自己变成演奏机器，而是陶冶情操，让孩子对特殊的美有自己的理解，融入感情后才能有所突破。 人生不是百米冲刺，赢在起跑线上的那几秒。人生是一场旅行，对整个旅途来说，出发时提前几秒，微不足道。
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