therapy is actually the best move when sex abuse is involved because most friends and acquaintances cannot handle hearing about it. I went to therapy many times after being abused and repressing the memories. It helps to have someone else say, "It was NOT your fault. You did nothing wrong and you can release your shame. Shame is the real killer in this situation. Shame results in more pain and further victimization. Shame begins in adults and parents being unable to discuss these things openly. If we had an open and trusting environment, this shit wouldn't be allowed. It is shame and inaction within parents that results in these shitstains of humans called pedophiles getting away with this horror.