 credit: pixabay.com 有位熟人，被医生诊断出得了忧郁症并开了治疗的药给他。可是，他自己和家人无论如何都无法相信他得了忧郁症。他们也不知道为什么医生会做出这样的判断？ 他的文化不高，是个具有浓厚大男子主义的人。他的思想里男的一定要是家里的顶梁柱。可是，他的生意屡做屡败，最后，只能零散卖些零售海鲜来挣些小钱。家里有两个儿子。原本也不需要他操心。一个都早就成人自己跟朋友合做生意；另一位在读大学。可是，他就是觉得老大到婚龄还不结婚，也不谈对象；老二还在读书；家里的两套房子房供还没还；总之，每天为了钱发愁... 他的妻子在微信上做些小生意；每个月有不错的收入，原本是好事。可是，他就觉得女的不应该出去抛头露面，也许因为自己现在无法挣钱，所以，妻子挣钱給他很大的压力吧？两人就经常闹别扭。总之，生活里事事不顺心。 也许他自己不觉得自己有忧郁症。可是，从他每日的生活情况来看，一点都不奇怪他真的有忧郁症。他的很多担忧外人看来根本没必要。可是，培养孩子出息到为他们买房结婚操办等，不都是很多人的终极目标吗？好像如果不完成这些，就不是称职的父母；同时社会的攀比之风加剧；他有很多有钱人的朋友；心里就越是憋屈；结果把自己的日子过得苦嘻嘻的... 挣钱对很多人来说非常容易。可是，对于另外一些人来说却非常不容易。社会就是这么不平等。不同阶层的人每天关注的重点也不一样；有钱人的世界穷人不懂；穷人的很多无奈又完全不在有钱人的头脑中。 对于很多人，满足生活基础需求都还是问题；当很多人在想着如何投资挣钱，如何购买第二套房的时候，又有多少人还在为温饱问题操心？ 有些人一个月的工资也许是很多人一年的工资；社会两级分化越来越严重；也难怪那位朋友如此地落寞和不堪了... 在很多人的眼里，他已经是日子过得很不错的了，可是，在他自己的世界里，他还有太多未竟之事，他跟别人的差距还很大... 不能说他是杞人忧天，自找麻烦。大多数的人都是和比自己好的人比。有几个人会对自己现在的生活觉得满意？生活总是有更多的诱惑和欲望；也许是这些诱惑和欲望激励着自己不断前行。但是，当奢求超出自己能力之外的时候，也许是时候反思来调整自己的心态了... 忧郁症已经是个提醒......
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我的天 是否抑郁 真的取决于自己心态。这人真是绝了，老婆收入多还不好吗？我要是这男的，我开心还来不及呢，真是。。。。囧
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是呀。有些人天生大男子，所以现在很痛苦。
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这都要归咎于当事人，“看得开或看不开”而已 like
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嗯啊。只缘身在此山中。
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有些时候不受控制。可能还有焦虑症吧。 我刚退伍的时候零九年，找不到工作，在家里就忧郁了。如果这个可以理解的话，去年出不了门，有吃有喝有工作，但是也焦虑了。 一个当过兵，生死都不在乎的人，不知道会因为什么就触发了。
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焦虑症是一定的。人就是很奇怪的动物。外人只能看大概，真正他心里想的我们也不知道。所以也真的不能乱下定论。而且外人的个体情况也不一样，所以看到的也许也不一样。难怪人家说没有权利去judge 呢。
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是，这种病症真不好预测。我见过很多五大三粗的硬汉，突然间就倒下了。PTSD，新冠都对不同的年龄的人造成不同等级的伤害，抑郁这东西，不分年龄，性别，种族
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| last_update | 2021-08-05 04:29:24 |
| depth | 3 |
| children | 0 |
| net_rshares | 0 |
| last_payout | 2021-08-12 04:29:24 |
| cashout_time | 1969-12-31 23:59:59 |
| total_payout_value | 0.000 SBD |
| curator_payout_value | 0.000 SBD |
| pending_payout_value | 0.000 SBD |
| promoted | 0.000 SBD |
| body_length | 75 |
| author_reputation | 29,663,488,391,777 |
| root_title | ［生活］穷后忧郁症 |
| beneficiaries | [] |
| max_accepted_payout | 1,000,000.000 SBD |
| percent_steem_dollars | 10,000 |
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| post_id | 93,050,612 |
|---|---|
| author | bo022022 |
| permlink | qxcbxy |
| category | hive-180932 |
| json_metadata | {"app":"steemcn\/0.1"} |
| created | 2021-08-05 00:27:36 |
| last_update | 2021-08-05 00:27:36 |
| depth | 1 |
| children | 0 |
| net_rshares | 0 |
| last_payout | 2021-08-12 00:27:36 |
| cashout_time | 1969-12-31 23:59:59 |
| total_payout_value | 0.000 SBD |
| curator_payout_value | 0.000 SBD |
| pending_payout_value | 0.000 SBD |
| promoted | 0.000 SBD |
| body_length | 2 |
| author_reputation | 147,532,903,269,444 |
| root_title | ［生活］穷后忧郁症 |
| beneficiaries | [] |
| max_accepted_payout | 1,000,000.000 SBD |
| percent_steem_dollars | 10,000 |