| json_metadata | "{"musingAppVersion":"1.1","appCategory":"Life","appTags":["Life","curiosity"],"app":"musing\/1.1","appParentAuthor":"nancybriti","appDepth":2,"musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","appParentPermlink":"fktdrgxcq","musingPostType":"answer","appBody":"<p>Many people are very, very afraid to grow old. From my experience, there are many people who are upset if they say that they are old or getting older. In fact, they really hated his birthday because he did not want to increase his age. This is actually very funny because they are afraid of what should be fun.<\/p><p>Being old is very pleasant for me, because with increasing age, of course we will be more respected and respected by those who are much younger. Getting old will make us look more authoritative and of course all our commands will be followed. Being old can actually make us live relaxed because we no longer need to worry about thinking of children who are still small and dizzy thinking about work at the office. When we age we should not need to feel the life problems of love, lifestyle, and this and that.<\/p><p>Many reasons that make humans very afraid to grow old. Their reasons are actually illogical and maybe only feelings that do not necessarily occur. Some of the reasons for fear of growing old from what I noticed are as follows:<\/p><p>Afraid of weakening<\/p><p>Do you know the term \"tough age\"? tough age means there is a young age. In other words, when we grow old, we lose strength. Our body also weakens. Old people usually have difficulty hearing, seeing, or walking. Sometimes memories don't function properly. All these things make you afraid to grow old.<\/p><p>Fear is not interesting anymore<\/p><p>In our young age we will certainly look very attractive because at that age we have a fresh and fresh young aura. The aura will bring out charisma that makes you young look attractive. In addition, even at a young age our body and skin look so beautiful, tight without wrinkles that can attract the eyes of people around. In our society there is the term \"young is ideal\" so that everyone thinks we must look young to look attractive.<\/p><p>Not Useful Fear<\/p><p>When we are old, there is indeed an event where our body and muscle strength becomes weak and memory and thinking power also weaken. This is indeed a matter of course. This is what is feared by humans because the weakening of brain function and energy will make the person not be used again in the world of work because of that consideration. They are also afraid that if they are labeled as useless to their families and children because they are troublesome or a burden. A little advice, things like this need not be feared because when we are old we are still very useful to give advice and input to young people who like arrogant thoughts. In addition, you are also useful and valuable because by growing up you have a lot of time to be with the children and grandchildren who are possible when you are young it rarely happens because of busy work.<\/p><p>Besides the reasons for the fear above, if you do not want these reasons to become a reality, then you should work hard and give full attention to the family so that the relationship between families becomes tight. In addition, try to have a deposit or investment in the form of money or anything for your old age so that you do not need to ask for family help and become independent parents. When we grow old, then we have been given time by God to improve our nature in the past and draw closer to Him.<\/p><p>Hopefully it can be a lesson and also input for those who are afraid to grow old. Being old is not something to be afraid of but something to be grateful for because we have been given a long time to enjoy this life and experience the experience of the past. Sorry if there is a mistake<\/p>","appTitle":"What is it that scares us about growing old?"}" |
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